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Hi Judy,
Not necessarily. Freedom means coming out of our egoistic nature. We can reach freedom by building for ourselves a strong spiritual environment which will influence us with the importance of coming out of our ego and acquiring the nature of bestowal.
For this reason, the Kabbalists equate our main freedom in life in choosing to be influenced by a spiritual environment. Not just any environment, but specifically a spiritual environment, since only through the spiritual environment can we get the importance of coming out of our nature and only through that environment can we draw the light that can help us to actualize this.
Check out this blog post from Rav Laitman for more details: https://laitman.com/2012/10/bestowal-should-become-fashionable/
Albert @ KabU
My question has to do with the lesson statement for what we will learn in week 2:
“How you are completely controlled in every aspect of your life and why you still think you can achieve freedom.”
From what I read, it appears that we are influenced by outside forces and inside (internal) forces. However, according to the lesson, “Free Will is really ignorance.”
I do understand that our environment influences our choices (where we were born to whom we were born) but I am baffled by the thought that we are completely controlled in EVERY aspect of our lives.
Please explain. Thank you.
Hi MsNandi Marie,
If we’re presented with two options, we can say we’re free to choose between the two options. But if we’re presented with only one option, then we have no choice and no freedom. This is essentially what our life is like. Although on the surface it looks we’re constantly being presented with multiple options, but if we dig deep into our nature, we’ll see that on the most fundamental level, there is only one option: maximum pleasure, minimum pain.
In other words, our nature is the desire to receive pleasure. As long as we’re within this nature, we’re like programmed machines that will always chase pleasure and run away from pain. There is no freedom there at all.
True freedom is when we start to rise above our nature and then another option opens up: bestowal. It’s only when we have the option to choose between reception and bestowal is there a potential for free choice.
Check out this blog post from Rav Laitman for more details: https://laitman.com/2010/10/what-no-fortune-teller-knows/
In order to reach freedom from our current nature, we need to choose and build a spiritual environment for ourselves which will influence us with the importance of acquiring the quality of bestowal.
For this reason, the Kabbalists equate our main freedom in life in choosing to be influenced by a spiritual environment. Not just any environment, but specifically a spiritual environment, since only through the spiritual environment can we get the importance of coming out of our nature and only through that environment can we draw the light that can help us to actualize this.
Check out this blog post from Rav Laitman for more details: https://laitman.com/2012/10/bestowal-should-become-fashionable/
Albert @ KabU
With statements like “the creator places each soul with in an environment that will allow its development”, and “the creator has your whole life mapped out for you” how again am I free to choose my environment?
When the desire for spirituality—the Point in the Heart–finally appears, the Creator places a person in an environment that will allow the soul to develop to perfection.
The third factor, the externals, can affect the quality of development of the essence, but not the essence itself.
There is only one thing that we can change in this entire system–the speed of development so that spirituality can be achieved in one lifetime.
When we give joy to the collective soul, even though each feels the joy and the closeness individually, this reception becomes bestowal.
I am pointing these quotes because it gives me a better opportunity to explain what I have understood and where I find myself. I could write a book about the “externalities” in my life. However, it would be pointless after what I have learned. I believe I have felt the Point in my Heart several times. And then given in to the externalities more than the Spirituality. I believe that at this point in my life, I want to change the speed of my development so that I can achieve Spirituality in this lifetime. I completely understand that I need, we need to belong to a collective soul of like minded individuals to bring about the reception that will become bestowal. In other words, in terms of free will, I have freely chosen Spirituality and will stay on this path so that my soul will continue to adhere to the Creator. I believe and I understand. Thank you!
how is it that ALL of my choices are predetermined, all known by the creator before I am presented with them. Except my choice of environment. because my environment is literally everything. if I choose to live in the Bronx rather then queens is that me, or the creator? what about the color i paint the apartment? If im driving down the road and choose to swerve to miss a squirrel thats the creator right? but if I choose to exit to get coffee thats me? Makes no sense, there is non else besides him thereby ……who am I?
Hi Terry,
Freedom means rising above our egoistic nature. As we learned in this week’s lesson, we do this by building for ourselves a strong spiritual environment.
Baal HaSulam talks about this in the article, the Freedom. He writes: “Harut (carved) on the tables”; do not pronounce it Harut (carved), but rather Herut (freedom), to show that they are liberated from the angel of death.
Throughout the article he explains how our current egoistic nature is that angel of death. Meaning although we are technically alive and surviving, relative to spirituality, our life is considered death. True life is within a completely different nature, that of bestowal. In order to reach freedom from our current nature, we need to choose and build a spiritual environment for ourselves which will influence us with the importance of acquiring the quality of bestowal.
For this reason, the Kabbalists equate our main freedom in life in choosing to be influenced by a spiritual environment. Not just any environment, but specifically a spiritual environment, since only through the spiritual environment can we get the importance of coming out of our egoistic nature and only through that environment can we draw the light that can help us to actualize this.
Check out this blog post from Rav Laitman for more details: https://laitman.com/2012/10/bestowal-should-become-fashionable/
You can ask: but if there is none else besides Him, then even my choices in the spiritual environment are predetermined? That is correct, our initial choice of the spiritual environment is not up to us. This follows the saying that: the Creator puts man’s hand on the good fate and says “choose this for yourself”. Meaning He awakened your point in the heart and brought it to a good spiritual environment in which you can nourish it. Only after that, the rest is up to you.
So what needs to happen for me to start actualizing my free will here? After all, the point in the heart is seemingly forcing me to be here. If so, then this desire needs to be taken away from me little by little, and there I begin to reveal more and more the place of my freedom.
This is similar to how we teach a child to ride a bike. First the parent holds the child completely. Then as the child learns to pedal and balance himself, the parent lets go a little, then a little more and a little more, until the child continue to pedal without the parent holding him at all.
So we too need to learn to continue to do this work even when that initial desire for spirituality begins to disappear or when the ego grows and begins to pull us into many different directions. When that happens, we’ll feel a need for mutual work in the group, the spiritual environment. On one hand when I fall into my ego, they need to pull me out, and on the other hand I need to help pull others out when they fall. This is why Kabbalists have always studied in groups (physical or virtual).
We will learn more about this in the more advanced semesters on KabU, where you’ll receive your own Kabbalah group with whom you can practice these things.
Lastly, we need to be careful with how we work with this concept called there is “none else besides Him”. Every single moment indeed comes to us directly from the Creator, but it does not mean that we can just take this as a maxim and sit around doing nothing all day. The correct way to work with this concept is to split our work to internal and external.
Externally I continue to exist on the level of this world so I must function in a normal way in society, follow the normal rules and laws of society, to work, take care of my family, health, etc. Meaning to do everything normally.
And internally, I try to attribute everything that is happening to the Creator, to “none else besides Him”. But this is our internal work and it does not cancel out any of the normal external actions that we need to take.
We’ll learn more about this concept in the more advanced lessons. In the meantime check out this blog post from Rav Laitman for more details: https://laitman.com/2014/10/if-i-am-not-for-myself-then-no-one-will-help-me/
Albert @ KabU
Love your neighbor as you love yourself. Why is it so hard to show love, compassion to someone that is hurtful, disrespectful to others ?Will it ever be possible to love unconditionally?
Hi Mira,
Loving others is like exercising. We cannot go straight into lifting 1000 pounds. We first need to train and prepare ourselves with lower weights, and then, when we’re ready, we can increase the resistance to higher and higher weights.
So although one day, we will indeed reach love for the whole world, but for now, that is the equivalent of lifting 1000 pounds without training. Instead, we need to start with a lower resistance and build up to it.
That lower resistance is the Kabbalistic group. We first get into small groups of ten, and practice reaching these spiritual qualities of love and bestowal in that small group. After we master that in the group of ten, we can add another circle, another group of ten to that connection. And after we master that, we can add more and more circles, until we come to include the whole world in that connection.
In the advanced semesters of KabU, everyone will be placed into groups of ten and we’ll learn how to do this work practically in the ten.
Albert @ KabU
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