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Hi there,
I am looking forward to understand the Kabbalah’s view to love relationships. Regarding the current lesson, I have noticed this ‘change the other’ behavior before in me and I have started to control it! However sometimes it is an almost subconscious urge to “request her to change” – and I rationally hate it. Hope I can learn to improve this behavior of mine!
Hi there!
Indeed it takes time and practice to rewire our brains and teach ourselves this opposite approach! It’s opposite to the ego, and everything we have become used to. So, we just need to keep practicing, and remember that the best way to change ourselves is with a supportive environment to remind and motivate us!
Hi Friends
Yes I know it’s weird but in a good way. I have noticed that sometimes when my wife argues with me about something, she argues about things she is seeing in me but are thing she fears about herself and vice versa.
This lesson reminds me of something someone once told me, and that was to always let people stay where they are in regards to their level of personal development. And it makes totally sense to me.
In my experience , blame in a relationship is never the answer. The things that we want to change in our relationships are the things that we need to change in ourselves . Our partners are a refection and a perfect mirror into the window of our souls.
Yes..! I agree. Even if our partners don’t do things 100% right all the time- it’s our job to see that with compassion, knowing that we are all here doing the best we can, and have had different life experiences that built us up the way we are.
It’s interesting to note how sometimes everything will go smoothly, and then at some point, our partner will trigger us. This too is no coincidence, but a nudge from “the system” for us to make some forward movement in our awareness/growth.
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