Dear Ingrid,
This is a fantastic question! As you advance in your studies, you will find the essential need to continue working in your group. It is very common to feel the sensation of rejection and unwillingness to participate – this is our egoistic nature holding us back from advancing in the work of bestowal, and it is very important because it provides resistance/the catalyst on which we advance above. Ideally, we only provide examples of importance and greatness to those within our group, but there are situations where we can ask for help too to ensure one remains connected.
Best of luck!
Christian @KabU