Real Love Reset
for Singles

A proven relationship system powered by 6,000 years of timeless wisdom – adapted for modern dating and real‑world connection.

Why It’s So Hard Today?

Modern dating moves faster – but not deeper. 

Social media paints perfect pictures.

Apps offer endless options but little real connection. 

And emotional walls from past experiences make it hard to trust again.

No wonder it feels like a never‑ending cycle of false starts and fading interest.

What You Actually Need?

You don’t need more tips or tricks. You need a method that shows you, step by step: 

– What truly matters in a partner 

– What’s blocking you emotionally 

– How to build a connection that lasts

Real Love Reset Was Designed for People Just Like You

You’ve tried apps, advice columns – maybe even therapy.
Yet the same cycle continues.

If any of these feel familiar…
you’re in the right place!

👤 I’m a Man Looking for Lasting Relationship with Woman

😓 I always feel like I have to chase – and never really get chosen.

📱 What if I miss out? There’s always someone new just a swipe away – but I’m still alone.

🔍 I don’t know how to tell if she’s actually interested or just being polite.

🧱 I’ve been taught to stay strong – but now I’m told to open up. How?

🚷 I want something real, but every time I try, I get ghosted or rejected.

🤐 I don’t even know how to talk about emotions without feeling weak.

🧠 I’ve built success in other areas of life – but relationships still feel like a mystery.

⚖️ I try to be a good guy, but it feels like women are more attracted to someone else.

🎭 I’m not even sure who I’m supposed to be anymore. Strong? Sensitive? Alpha? Real?

👩 I’m a Woman Looking for a Lasting Relationship with Man

💔 They seemed so into me at first… then pulled away for no reason. It’s exhausting.

⏳ Everyone around me is getting married or in a relationship. What’s wrong with me? I’m running out of time…

🌪 I talk to so many people, but nothing ever goes deep. I want love, but I’m so tired of short-lived connections that go nowhere.

🔁 I keep dating the wrong people. What am I really looking for? Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men?

🛑 My heart still remembers the pain. Even when a good man comes along, doubts creep in… What if he’s just like the rest?

🎭 I’m told I’m ‘too much’ or ‘too independent’-should I hold back who I am?

📸 Everyone online looks like they have perfect relationships. Am I expecting too much?

😔 What if I’m just not good enough for the kind of love I want?

💣 What if I put my heart into this… and it ends in heartbreak again?

What You’ll Learn to Finally Build Real Love

This course isn’t just theory. It’s a step-by-step transformation designed to help you break old patterns, connect from a place of strength, and finally build the love you’ve been searching for.

The course gives you the tools to understand yourself, break the unconscious patterns that keep love stuck on repeat, decode the differences between men and women, and build a connection that doesn’t fade – it evolves.

Clarity

Discover who truly fits – stop repeating the same mismatches.

Inner Work

Break emotional patterns and release baggage so you can build from wholeness, not wounds.

Emotional Skills

Learn how to connect, express, and be vulnerable – without fear of losing yourself.

Mindset Reset

Shift from pressure, anxiety, and fear to calm, grounded confidence in love and in yourself.

What’s waiting for you in this course?

Course Length

10-week transformative program

Weekly Live Sessions

1.5 hours each – interactive lesson + workshop

Exclusive Q&A Forum

Direct access to our experts – get every question answered

Rich Supporting Materials

Comprehensive resources to deepen and accelerate your learning

10 experiential modules with guided exercises, real-life scenarios, deep dialogue, and lasting insights

1. Self-Awareness

What really drives you in a relationship, and how does that shape your choices?

2. The Hidden Scripts We Follow

Uncover the subconscious beliefs about love formed by family, culture, and past experience.

3. He & She - Parallel Worlds?

Learn the real reasons men and women often misunderstand each other – and how to bridge the gap with awareness, not frustration.

4. The Pure Need for Love

Access your emotions without masks, fears, or unnecessary drama.

5. Infatuation vs. Love

Why the magic fades (and why that’s actually a good thing) plus how to reignite the spark.

6. Social Influences

See how your environment can either support or sabotage your love life.

7. Renewal in Love

Practical tools to deepen emotional connection, even through difficult times.

8. Building Shared Ground

Fight right, listen deeply, and grow closer through your differences.

9. Your Social Circle as a Growth Engine

Harness the power of community to shape and support healthy love.

10. The Couple as Part of a Greater Whole

A new vision of a relationship not just as personal, but as part of something bigger.

Real People. Real Struggles. Real Results.

Real Love Reset provides solutions to all these challenges!

Emma R., 29, London 🇬🇧

Before: 💔 “I’m exhausted from endless swiping and dating – every interaction feels the same, leading nowhere real.”

After: “The course had me step back, get brutally honest about what truly matters, and ditch my ‘maybe’ list. I deleted the apps, told friends exactly who I was looking for, and within a month I clicked with Tom at a small dinner party. No more endless swiping-just one person who fits, feels right, and makes dating fun again.”

Sophia V., 44, New York 🇺🇸

Before: ⏳ “I hate feeling like I’m running out of time.”

After: “Swapped panic for purpose. Focused dates, clear goals-met a partner who’s on the same timeline, no ticking clock in the background.”

Olivia J., 28, Sydney 🇦🇺

Before: 💬 “I crave real connection, but all I get are shallow chats and people who disappear overnight.”

After: “The program nudged me to lead with real questions-not small talk. When Dan answered back just as honestly, the vibe clicked. Three months in, we’re planning weekend hikes instead of wondering who ghosts first.”

Jake F., 34, Dublin 🇮🇪

Before: 🚧 “I want love, but the closer someone gets, the more I panic and push them away.”

After: “I finally spot the freak-out before it hijacks me. Now I pause, breathe, stay-and, funny enough, she stays too.”

Lucas T., 27, Los Angeles 🇺🇸

Before: 🔄 “What if I settle? What if I miss out? There’s always someone new just a swipe away – but I’m still alone.”

After: “Listing my non-negotiables on paper killed the swipe addiction. Five weeks later a running-club friend checked every box-so I asked her out. We’re exclusive, FOMO at 0 %.”

Nathan C., 66, Montreal 🇨🇦

Before: 💪 “Love looks easy for confident people; I feel miles behind.”

After: “Confidence came with practice. Asked out Pauline at a jazz bar – turns out I’m right on schedule.”

Ethan P., 26, Chicago 🇺🇸

Before: 😰 “I second-guess everything… I just want to feel secure in love.”

After: “I finally shut down the late-night ‘what-ifs.’ Now I just say what I mean, she laughs, and I can go to sleep without rereading every text.”

Daniel M., 33, Toronto 🇨🇦

Before: 📸 “Everyone online looks perfect – am I expecting too much?”

After: “Once I ditched the highlight-reel mindset, real life got interesting. Met Sara at a vinyl market; no filters, just chemistry-and I’m good with that.”

Lily J., 48, Barcelona 🇪🇸

Before: 🔍 “I’ve been in relationships, but they never felt right.”

After: “I finally sorted chemistry from compatibility. Jorge checks both, and every part of me says ‘this fits.’”

Isabella N., 31, Madrid 🇪🇸

Before: 🎯 “I keep choosing the wrong people – I just want to understand who is truly right for me.”

After: “I finally spelled out my absolute ‘yes’ and hard ‘no’ traits. Two dates later I met Miguel-green flags everywhere, and my gut is calm for the first time.”

Zoe T., 54, Copenhagen 🇩🇰

Before:📍 “Apps aren’t working; no idea where to meet someone IRL.”

After: “Showed up at three local events in one week. Second event = Anders. We both deleted the apps.”

Hannah L., 32, Amsterdam 🇳🇱

Before: 🎭 “I want someone to love me – not the version I feel pressured to be on a first date.”

After: “Showed up as straight-up me-quirks, bad Dutch and all. He stayed, I relaxed, and it’s the easiest connection I’ve ever felt.”

Maria S., 42, Rome 🇮🇹

Before: ⚖️ “I feel like men and women are speaking different languages.”

After: “Started listening for meaning, not winning points. My girlfriend says it’s like we share subtitles-and fights turned into conversations.”

Adam K., 45, Berlin 🇩🇪

Before: 👪 “Every time I see my family, they ask when I’ll find someone…”

After: “Shifted the focus from ‘When?’ to ‘Who?’ Met Carlo through a cooking course, and the only pressure now is perfecting his tiramisu for Sunday lunch.”

Liam D., 41, Melbourne 🇦🇺

Before: 🌙 “Some nights, I wonder if I’ll ever find someone who truly sees me.”

After: “Put the real ‘me’ on the table at meetups. Jenna noticed, asked for coffee, and the loneliness headlines stopped running in my head.”

Chloé W., 62, Vienna 🇦🇹

Before: 👻 “The ghosts of my past relationships hold me back.”

After: “Wrote them a goodbye letter, meant it, and moved on. Now brunch dates feel light-no ghosts at the table.”

David C., 52, Paris 🇫🇷

Before: 🏆 “I’ve built a successful life, but love still feels like the one thing I can’t figure out.”

After: “Treated dating like my best projects: clear scope, real milestones. Met Claire, merger approved-heart and head.”

Ava B., 51, Stockholm 🇸🇪

Before: 💔 “I’m tired of being afraid-afraid to get hurt again.”

After: “Fear dialed back when I realized I could handle hurt. Opened up, met Henrik, and the risk suddenly looks a lot like reward.”

Ryan E., 55, San Francisco 🇺🇸

Before: ⏰ “I barely have the energy to date – how do people make time for love?”

After: “Put love on the calendar like a workout. Surprise: date night refuels me more than Netflix ever did.”

Michael H., 64, New York 🇺🇸

Before: 🏙️ “Millions around me, yet I’ve never felt more alone.”

After: “Expanded my circle one meetup at a time. Met someone who loves museum Sundays as much as I do.”

Jessica R., 60, Boston 🇺🇸

Before: 🗣️ “I don’t want to settle, but I also don’t want to push people away.”

After: “Found the language for my needs. My partner heard it, respected it, and we both stayed-a win-win I never thought possible.”

Shelly Peretz & Lio Spigler - Course Authors

Hi, I’m Shelly – screenwriter, presenter, couples-workshop facilitator, wife, and mom of four.  For over 20 years I’ve studied and taught the wisdom of Kabbalah – not as mysticism, but as a practical way of life that starts within and shapes how we love, communicate, and build lasting relationships.

I’ve written for mainstream media about relationships through this lens, created and hosted video series and podcasts, and led workshops for people searching for real connection – beyond the noise of modern dating.

I believe this is the moment to rediscover time-tested wisdom and apply it to how we relate – with kindness, clarity, and courage – especially when so many relationships are drifting toward separation or divorce.

If this resonates, you’re invited to join me in Real Love Reset and take a grounded, step-by-step path toward love that lasts.

Hi, I’m Lio. I’m glad you’re here to learn how to build or deepen a relationship. For nearly 20 years I’ve studied the wisdom of Kabbalah and for 15 I’ve taught it as a practical method of human connection. I’ve facilitated thousands of connection circles with people from every background, which gave me a rare, front-row view of how we bond, misread, repair – and grow.

My work helps singles and couples understand what drives them and turn ego-driven habits into empathy, responsibility, and love. I’ve been married for almost 25 years, and I try to live what I teach every day with my wife. In parallel, I consult in branding, drawing on psychology, desire, and motivation – the same skills I use to help people relate with more clarity and care.

Kabbalah, as I practice and teach it, isn’t about mysticism; it’s about real-world connection – learning ourselves, learning each other, and building bonds that last. If that’s what you’re after, you’re in the right place

The Missing Piece No One Talks About

Based on 6,000-Year-Old Kabbalistic Wisdom

Everyone teaches how to attract a partner – how to impress, how to play the game. Almost no one shows you how to build a relationship that actually lasts.

It’s easy to say “just compromise”, “be open”, or “love unconditionally”. 

But how do you do that? 

Where is the method that guides you step by step into real connection?

Kabbalah reveals the hidden structure of relationships – not just romantic, but between all people.

 This isn’t a theory. It’s a practical method that has helped people for thousands of years truly understand:

– How to work with your differences 

– How to grow together instead of apart 

– How to transform tension into deeper connection

This is the piece most modern advice is missing –

 and it changes everything.

Real Love Reset is produced by KabU, the #1 authority in Authentic Kabbalah – bringing 6,000 years of timeless wisdom to modern relationships.

#1 Authority in Authentic Kabbalah

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