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- October 12, 2025 at 3:28 pm EDT #459082
VerenaParticipantHi Gianni… what is the spiritual impact of  a group of friends , a ten, being  shattered, ? Does it differ from a conflict, a person or two leaving or a rebuilding of a ten and how?
- October 12, 2025 at 10:45 pm EDT #459119
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorA conflict is a revelation of the shattered state that was already present. We’re all shattered. I could be unaware of that; aware but indifferent (I want to remain as I am); or aware and in a crisis over it so that I’m screaming out to the Creator for help. And these states can manifest externally, too. For example, I can be fighting with the ten, and not, in practice, in the acknowledgement that the state is a result of my shattered attitude to them. Meaning I know it, in theory, but the way I relate to the state isn’t such that I fix only my attitude instead of setting out to fix the friends. That means I’m shattered but unconscious of it.
- October 12, 2025 at 3:23 pm EDT #459081
VerenaParticipantJust adding: I am talking specifically of the deficiency to overcome separation, I feel it’s going so deep… because all we are is shattered… but even if I can acknowledge this, I don’t know how to become grateful for having been given this state…
- October 12, 2025 at 10:40 pm EDT #459118
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorWe need to cry out from this state, for the creator to help. I’m happy I am aware of what is broken, and that I have the wherewithal to turn to the Creator. That’s already, on both ends, something a regular person lacks. They suffer with no solution; I could receive help in this state.
- October 12, 2025 at 3:21 pm EDT #459079
VerenaParticipantHi Gianni,
How can I become grateful for having a deficiency?
And what’s the purpose of the deficiency then if not to overcome?
Can it be that dome of us  are only there to have a deficiency, so that the light can fill the dark space and even in deep prayer there won’t ever be an answer, because the purpose of such lives in the overall system is to be deficient so the light can expand into that empty vessel, that darkness?
- October 12, 2025 at 10:37 pm EDT #459116
Gianni – KabU InstructorModerator“Anyone can be as Moses if he cleanses his ways.” So, no, it can’t be that I’m supposed to only remain in darkness and deficiency. But there are states when I need to accept the darkness in a way that it’s as if from now until forever I’ll be in the dark, and I’m ok, and even grateful, that I have this point of adhesion, that at agree with the Creator, whatever He wills. This is called delighted in mercy, hassidim.
- October 12, 2025 at 10:39 am EDT #459055
Kimadigital7ParticipantHow can we intensify that point of contact between the Creator and His creatures until we reach that state that we feel our lack strength and lowliness?
- October 12, 2025 at 10:34 pm EDT #459114
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorThe more we sharpen the intention toward the Creator, through the friends to the Creator, the less power we have for this work, and the closer we come to an outcry to the Creator to help. We can come to this very quickly.
- October 9, 2025 at 3:47 am EDT #458708
Helen
ParticipantHi Gianni,
Why do Kabbalists get up really early to study? isn’t the light always there?
thanks
Helen
- October 10, 2025 at 1:23 am EDT #458801
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorThe light always works. In fact, we’re in the world of Eyn Sof already. But no, we’re still in a perception where we are influenced by such matters as day, night, whether others are awake, engaged in nonsense, or relatively neutralized by sleep. So, Kabbalists have also studied at night. But we have to study when we can, and when there is a directed live gathering, which influences us even more than the time.
- October 11, 2025 at 8:02 pm EDT #458967
Helen
ParticipantSo is the reason Kabbalists study early mainly to choose a time when the disturbances from corporeal matters are minimal?
If so, how is that different from, say, the Buddhist approach of retreating from worldly desires to quiet them?
Since in Kabbalah we don’t try to cancel desires but to correct them, is studying at night an attempt to ‘cancel corporeal desires,’ or is it something else?thank you!
- October 11, 2025 at 8:07 pm EDT #458968
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorI can’t say that either. There’s a spiritual root to it and that’s why it’s better across the board.
- October 12, 2025 at 6:34 am EDT #459019
Helen
Participantcan you share and explain the spiritual root?
- October 5, 2025 at 10:51 am EDT #457648
VerenaParticipantDear Gianni, how do the shattered and the connected state overlap- especially in preparation for the congress?  because on the one handside it seems like basically everything is shattered… and it’s just no overcoming- and then on the other handside, just through being in the morning lesson that field of connection seems so tangible (even through a break because of another alarm… ). How do we navigate in this , feeling there is nothing we can do,feeling it is all on the creator, but willing to do whatever we can… only it seems it’s really the prayer we have, nothing else?
- October 5, 2025 at 12:03 pm EDT #457669
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorYes, it’s a dangerous cliff, the idea that there is nothing for me to do because the Creator does everything. Then one momentarily becomes religious. I need to do, in all states, with a turn to the Creator. Even in the most hopeless state, to find how to ask. It’s just that with my pride, I don’t want to ask.
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