What is the correct way to give to others?

To have the right intention for others.  To bestow without any thought of receiving anything in return.

Give without our usual desire to benefit.

Give without the desire to receive anything in return….and i mean anything.

The right intention

Give without intention to receive

If we  feel a desire in ourselves, and instead of fullfilling that desire for ourselves we decide to turn to our friends and fill their desire with the will to bestow, their happiness will fill us with double delight –  a fulfilled desire and the joy of bestowing to them. So, we should give with the intention to really want to bestow, to delight or friends through fullfilling their needs or desires.