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- July 20, 2020 at 1:14 pm EDT #33838

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- June 18, 2025 at 1:18 am EDT #442661
PradeepPartícipeHi Gianni,
I am very confused by the article Shamati 11: Joy with Trembling.
>> Where there is love, there should also be fear.
In the daily lesson on June 17th, Rav says: “Usually, we are in one of these states. Else we can not advance. One completes the other.”
Shouldn’t faith beyond reason mean faith over fear? Why would it be a requirement to have fear in order to have love for the friends or the Creator if there is none else besides Him?
Regards – Pradeep
- June 18, 2025 at 5:36 pm EDT #442738
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorHi Pradeep,
These are all good, necessary things. We need fear to reach love. Before I can reach love, which will require fear in order to hold onto the love, I need to start with fear that I’m not taking care of the ten, I’m not sufficiently pushing them toward the goal, soon they will fall from the connection, or if we’re connected, we’re not connected enough. Until I’m worrying for this, all the way to the point of connection on the degree of Gmar Tikun, the fear is not enough – and it wouldn’t matter if I reached the degree of love as I would not be able to hold onto it without establishing fear first.
- June 1, 2025 at 7:47 am EDT #441077
JosephPartícipeHi Gianni,
I heard Rav Laitman mention at the end of the convention that some Tens are ready to connect with other Tens, but not all. How can we discern if our Ten is truly ready for this step? We feel united in our inner connection and have a sincere yearning to begin connecting with another Ten. But is this enough?- June 2, 2025 at 7:37 am EDT #441167
JosephPartícipeThank you Gianni, this reply helps greatly.
- June 1, 2025 at 10:29 pm EDT #441136
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorIf you knew your proximity to the goal you might give up, or on the contrary, run toward it egoistically. In other words, you couldn’t move forward, Above Reason.
You go, doing all you can, until the end. The Creator knows when the end is.
- May 31, 2025 at 10:09 am EDT #440920
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesPartícipeOne should not exert oneself to find romantic love before developing Love of Friends, right?
- May 31, 2025 at 10:39 am EDT #440922
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorNo, no – do whatever you want with romantic love. That’s nothing more than what birds do when the male dances in front of the female. It’s on the animate level. Kabbalah deals with higher things.
That said, Kabbalists always tried to be married so that the animate body of ours is taken care of and doesn’t bother us about that.
- May 31, 2025 at 10:54 am EDT #440923
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesPartícipeOk. Must the other person have spiritual knowledge for the relationship to be successful? Love of fish may be a problem. Nobody likes to be used and left when “the magic” is gone.
- May 31, 2025 at 11:34 am EDT #440925
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorThey need to eventually learn that I’m on this path, for life, and a certain amount of my free time will be dedicated to it. And they need to fully support that.
- May 31, 2025 at 11:55 am EDT #440928
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesPartícipeSupport? To accept it? Or more than that?
- May 31, 2025 at 12:00 pm EDT #440929
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorJust to support and not be against. They don’t need to study or be actively interested in it.
Look, I married someone who studied with us, and moreover I actively checked with others to ensure she was solidly a part of it. But that’s not required and may not even be possible for everyone. The standard is what I said: supportive and not against because this is my soul and you can take anything else from me but not this.
- May 31, 2025 at 12:12 pm EDT #440932
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesPartícipeThis is an emptiness one feels, right? Should one pray for that person to come to one’s life?
- May 31, 2025 at 12:16 pm EDT #440933
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorIn the same vector as the spiritual work, one can also do things one needs to practically find someone.
But to clarify what you want and why, is already, along with the above mentioned, a sort of prayer
- May 31, 2025 at 12:55 pm EDT #440934
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesPartícipeWow Thank you very much, dear Gianni. Any tips to “dance” properly? I know that’s on the corporeal level, but maybe I have to keep in mind something you know and I don’t.
- May 31, 2025 at 1:56 pm EDT #440939
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorNo, the only thing to have in mind is the goal of life. If that’s front of mind, the rest will be correct.
- May 26, 2025 at 8:31 pm EDT #440152
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesPartícipeHello! Yesterday’s KES was awesome! I just wanted to check if I understood the idea well… According to what I understood, the meaning of the binding of Isaac is that we cannot really “kill” our ego directly (Isaac), but there are aspects of our desires and the ego that are “killable” (the ram they sacrificed instead) because of their animal/corporeal nature. Did I get it well? The masach is the one who gives us the ability to scrutinize those, right?
- May 26, 2025 at 11:56 pm EDT #440163
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorYes, the Will to receive is composed of many different parts, some we can work with now, some later, and some that can only be corrected at the End of Correction [gmar tikkun]. And we need the Masahch [screen] to identify them correctly.
- May 19, 2025 at 11:35 am EDT #438760
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesPartícipeHello! I would like to know what my work should be when not in the group. What is my individual work to climb the ladder?
- May 19, 2025 at 11:39 am EDT #438762
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorFor now:
(1) I immerse in the writings of Kabbalists every chance I get, with the expectation that the Reforming Light will work on me
(2) I try to more deeply sense “There is none else besides Him,” that there is no other force working in reality
(3) I scrutinize my relationship to the group
- May 15, 2025 at 12:16 pm EDT #438270
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesPartícipeHi! I would like to know what kabbalah says about the part of the bibble that has to do with Jesus (the new testament) Thank you in advance 😀
- May 15, 2025 at 12:21 pm EDT #438274
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorHere is a blog about this from Dr. Michael Laitman:
A question I received: The information you present to the world is fascinating. Everyone in my family is Orthodox Christian, and I’ve read the Bible and the New Testament since childhood. My question is: Where is Jesus Christ in your science? This worries me most of all, and is the only thing about your method that raises a concern.
My Answer: He’s absent, because I only base my teaching on the three main Kabbalists: Rashbi (The Book of Zohar), the Ari, and Baal HaSulam (view his available works in English). Just like any other science, Kabbalah bears no relation to any religion. It is the physics of forces that are perceived and examined through our sixth sense – the corrected desire.
In contrast, religion speaks about carrying out certain actions and rituals in our world, rather than correcting one’s egoism by means of the Upper Light. However, all religions want this action attributed to them.
- May 15, 2025 at 12:23 pm EDT #438275
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesPartícipeWow that was fast! Thank you! 😀
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