Share something from the lesson that you found insightful, or share your impressions from the exercise.

[Tal Mandelbaum]

Share something from the lesson that you found insightful, or share your impressions from the exercise.

[ahuz ziaf]

Don’t take disagreements/criticisms personally, everything happens to further our human development, it’s merely the physical manifestation of the creator nudging us towards the right path. Every disagreement with your partner is an opportunity to rise above the ego and to view/solve the issue objectively. Disagreements could be made less frequent if we take the time to proactively identify and discuss each other’s own egoistic tendencies and accept them with love as the exercise suggests

[Christianne]

very nice lesson

[David Edwards]

This exercise was a great bonding experience for me and my fiancé

[dree monster]

listening is a huge in relationships and one of the things I always try to do well. i like how it was put to listen to understand and not to just listen to respond.

[Leo]

Listening to understand or listening to respond! Thanks

[Richard Lively]

I  talk with my wife about everything I learn in Kabbalah.  I even explain the drawings i make of understanding the tree of life.  I take extensive notes and every Shabbat we go over what I learned the day before.  Shes not on board but she accepts that it is important to me.  Shes  not taken any of this wrong and she agrees that our life resembles a lot of what Kabbalah says, but she is not Jewish or “new age spiritual”.  We dont fight, its just not something we do.  And if we have a disagreement we realize that this is just a projection from the “Freudian” psychology.  We always remember the kids are watching, and we make sure to keep it healthy.  We understood long ago there is no “self’ in love.  We live this and thats why we have been together for over 10 years.

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