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The friends corporeality is my spirituality.
So how do I interpret this being in a virtual group. I understand when physically with the friends we can get them coffee or make them a plate and so on, correct? For a virtual group it is different. How is it different? I feel like we was told often to keep corporeality out of it in the young group and we would share things and friends would share things and sometimes that seemed to set the stage for much corporeality sharing. I know we are slowly giving ourselves time to implement these things. I just don’t know where the line is really.
When friends talk about their own corporeality it prompts me some to talk about my own. Not that I always succumb to this but sometimes I do and without a clear line I do not really know when I am doing it to much or not. It is an ingrained way of relating and takes time to understand what one is doing. Again though it makes it more difficult without clear lines.
You know? It is an unclear line so it is easy to talk one’s self into doing it again if one says to ones self that “I may as well do this because it is ingrained so why fight it when I don’t even know what it is to being with that constitutes going over the line.
There are some in my ten that have a problem when something said in Kabu is different than what Rav has said. One member even seemed to quit one time because of it and then came back and is now on strike because of it. Last young group class I think it was talked about men not having to get married to study kabbalah and Rav saying men have to be married according to my friend. He (my friend) also said the “Sages” don’t agree with what was discussed in Kabu. I tried to get to the bottom of it with rational questions but they were not answered clearly and concisely enough for me to get an exact idea of what is going on (And I am thinking may be the wrong way to go about it anyhow.) And now he is on strike and others seem upset (although they say they are not upset, so that adds to the confusion). What should I do? What should I have done?
What does it mean if talking to your ten feels like an exercise in futility. At best they will just ignore what i say and at worst will give me push back. Then I have to wait weeks or months for them to understand some things I was trying to tell them all along. Aren’t we here to hasten time. What is the point of me even speaking when i have to wait for them to get things in their own time anyhow.  I have asked the creator for help yet he seems to be on his union break.
