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- December 8, 2024 at 4:23 pm EST #408227
BradParticipantHello
Why is “Maasar” mandatory but the rest of the physical mitzvots are considered “religious” and not mandatory? Even though maasar is a spiritual and physical act Just like kosher, teffilin ect. Why is it singled out?
- December 8, 2024 at 8:44 pm EST #408258
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorAll those customs that were created by people who were in the spiritual world are some kind of material copy of actions in the Upper World, but maaser is the one that directly relates to what stands between the person and the Upper World: the Masach [screen]. Prior to the formation of the Masach, one has to slice off this 10% relating to Malchut, and only then can one even begin the spiritual work. Money, the value of which is decided solely by people’s desire, and with which one can buy what one desires, and the loss of which and acquisition of which alters one’s whole mood and state… it’s the thing that is practically a proxy for desire. That’s why it’s so sensitive an issue, because one is made of nothing but desire, and so specifically by it there’s a correction, whereas with all kinds of other corporeal actions, one could remain indifferent. For this reason, and additional reasons, Kabbalists always collected maaser from students practically on day one. Here, students have a choice in the matter, even though the Upper Laws haven’t changed.
- December 9, 2024 at 9:51 am EST #408320
BradParticipantThat makes sense now, its hard to give up what we love so much, (money) where as teffilin tzit tzits is not a strong desire as money. On the surface it would seem the other mitzvots do not give you livelihood, (some may argue otherwise) but thats Best answer yet. Thank you sir!
- December 7, 2024 at 3:34 pm EST #408026
VerenaParticipantHi, I just wanted to place a really big thank you for that wonderful KabU in action workshop we have just had. I dońt know where else to place this , so I just put it hear, itś overwhelming to feel that connection. 😊😊😊😊❤️❣️
- December 7, 2024 at 12:24 pm EST #408011
VerenaParticipantI have got a question about forming the right intention in our daily life. There were suggestions in some sessions to become aware of one´s intention, to turn it outwardly, towards the friends, but also to become aware of the creator in the corporeal world, to acknowledge him there (i.e. everything comes from above) and turn to him as some inner work. What is the right approach to form this intention to do that in corporeal life, in order to allow it but at the same time not let everyone run over you?
- December 7, 2024 at 7:59 pm EST #408059
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorIn regular life it’s not realistic yet. First, try to be in “There is none else besides Him.” What you’ll need to include in that, and constantly needing to renew it, will take all of your efforts. If you can hold onto that, we’ll talk further.
- December 8, 2024 at 5:59 am EST #408158
VerenaParticipantThanks so much, yes, thatś pretty much where I am trying to be :-), and I can start to feel „there is no one else besides him“ has got such a big impact on everything…when I focus on it. It clearly changes my perception of things, and especially towards peoples`struggles. Basically, it changes my perception of almost everything, if I bring myself to stay at this place. However, I usually cannot keep up this perception for more than minutes. Which is why I am wondering how to work with this perception during the day? How much should one try to be at this inner place and re-direct back to it while dealing with this corporeal work? Or is it just something to start and close the day with? Is there a risk of „overdosing“ this?
- December 6, 2024 at 5:33 pm EST #407933
ToddParticipantThere are some in my ten that have a problem when something said in Kabu is different than what Rav has said. One member even seemed to quit one time because of it and then came back and is now on strike because of it. Last young group class I think it was talked about men not having to get married to study kabbalah and Rav saying men have to be married according to my friend. He (my friend) also said the “Sages” don’t agree with what was discussed in Kabu. I tried to get to the bottom of it with rational questions but they were not answered clearly and concisely enough for me to get an exact idea of what is going on (And I am thinking may be the wrong way to go about it anyhow.) And now he is on strike and others seem upset (although they say they are not upset, so that adds to the confusion). What should I do? What should I have done?
- December 7, 2024 at 7:49 pm EST #408055
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorHi Todd,
Both suppositions are true. It’s true that you have to accept everyone. Rabash did this; Rav did this. At some point, though, we need to know that we’re in laws of nature that never change, and one such law dictates that while he can certainly study, and he should study, if he’s not married, he’ll be studying essentially with half of the desire that he has to correct; and the other half, he’ll have to eventually find, and correct as well. But no one should use such sticking points as excuses to delay their advancement. Go ahead and continue, and remember the advice of Rabash, “It is not that the friends should love me; rather it is I who must come to love the friends.”
- December 6, 2024 at 3:44 am EST #407869
RickiParticipantIf i cannot describe with words out loud to my ten what is in my heart, does this means that I am not yet in attainment of it, the “thing” I’d be trying to describe? Or is this simply a deficiency of knowledge which can be remedied by studying? In the first case it could be that if I cannot describe, then I’ve not yet attained. In the second case I may well have attained but I lack the permission to share it. Or maybe there is some other third case, i don’t know. Hopefully this question makes sense… I’ve been struggling to express myself recently…
- December 6, 2024 at 10:09 pm EST #407959
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorThere’s something to both conjectures. However, it’s not especially important that the perfect words are found to express your state. You can focus on the state of the ten and envisioning its higher state.
- December 5, 2024 at 1:30 am EST #407577
Kimadigital7ParticipantA friend in my ten is introducing to us a book that another ten has been studying called “The Secrets of the Eternal Book” in order for us to do the same thing. Does reading the book with the ten help us to advance?
- December 5, 2024 at 10:51 am EST #407789
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorIf it’s one of our books, and the ten agrees, the ten can decide that.
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