Preparation Question: What does it mean to connect with others? In what desire are we connected?

[Julian Edwards- KabU Instructor]

Preparation Question: What does it mean to connect with others? In what desire are we connected?

[Iggy]

Going from an egotistical perspective to one of bestowal means no longer thinking about the needs of the self only caring for others’

[Anthony]

Preparation Question: What does it mean to shift from an egoistic perception of reality to a perception based on bestowal?

Seeing connection not separation.

[Sol Belo]

To connect with others is to see them and their goals as mine

[Tiberius Ariton]

I think we are connected in the desire to receive in order to bestow. Desires of others would become my desire. True connection leads us to feel others desires of any type, positive or negative.  especially those desires that are hidden, or not vizible by themselves.

Like, for instance I say that I have a desire to connect, and instead, I wish or I feel the need to have this desire to connect but I full myself, instead. Does this make any sense?

It’s like we play the role of a detector of the true desires in others?

The following idea comes into my mind: The true help is giving what one needs and not wat he ask or say he wants.

[Helen]

When I bring my desires to the circle, I am helping the friend to correct their desires, and it helps them reach spirituality.

[Trip]

Shifting from the perspective that “all desires of the individual are valid and meant to serve the individual” to “all desires of the individual are valid and meant to serve the whole”.

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