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I call my wife old and she laughs, laughs at me after jokingly reminding me im only one year younger than her (technically its almost 2 and i push this to the limit as well). We are getting older but nothing has changed. For over 10 years now we are really solid in our foundation of where we started. And this is because I made it clear before we got married “I wont change if you dont” and we simply never tried to change each other and we didnt change. We dont let life in our home, we dont doo politics or sports, we simply raise our kids and leave the media and most influences out of our personal space. We used to have problems early on when we let family or friends get too far and give HORRIBLE advice on how to be happy. Then we met a professional that explained, we were right in the beginning. Now most of those people who were giving horrible advice are either divorced or simply in relationships of stagnation while the wife and I are thriving as a couple and always have. My wife cannot be annoyed by me because I bring her joy and she brings me joy. I dont see this changing and I have always accounted it to a blessing from above that was just given to me. The only way i can annoy my wife is if i spend too much on something and she doesnt feel its mutually beneficial or worth the cost. We are a couple and we make all decisions even financial and that is really the secret to a successful relationship in general.
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