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Second question: How would one guide a teenager who has not been brought up in an integral environment, who has no such network, but who starts asking questions?

And how , specifically, if it’s a boy asking a mother (or maybe vice versa).

What should be the guidance and what should be avoided?

For example… (because that recently just happens), a teenage boy suddenly comes up with a concept of integral society in all sorts of details, as well as his perception of the function and consequence of having an ego, …- saying his ego was a huge bubble, only filled with his self , unable to get satiated, disconnecting from everyone else, because they are also in their bubble. And he wants answers. and asks what could there be more,asks for something that goes beyond the ego, that will be so much bigger than the ego so that this ego cannot keep swallowing all it gets and empty out again. Who feels that all fear of death comes from being out there alone with his ego  being like a blackhole swallowing everything it receives.

How do you relate properly? Which sources or videos would be reasonsble? It’s still only a teenager… someone who wants to find his own way… who has no real understanding of these concepts…who avoids anything coming close to religion…

I am using this as an example because it left me stunned, and I cannot figure out how to relate. Of course, I carefully gave answers…. but still… I wonder how to answer correctly

[Verena]

Hi Gianni…I have got a question about how to relate to the meaning of childhood in terms of how we are placed into this world to develop/ grow until the point in the heart awakens and we can actually work on correcting our desires somehow consciously.

 

If I think that the only reason we start searching is due to a lack, a deficiency … and the way we perceive the world/relate to others/our values… including our desires , longing, and deep lacks… this is all built throughout the childhood, it seems this all and naturally our development depends all on the environment …

so my question is simply:

Is it somehow like that, and if yes…how do we relate to the responsibility within ?

[Verena]

Hi Gianni,

This is basically not so different to what I asked… but it’s a topic in our ten… which had lots of ups and downs,and it started to get to all of us…   feeling we miss out on something essential… like wanting to work, to be there for the friends, to really form a ten… but feeling we run behind things… being „too late“ …

so… How can we , especially in a virtual environment, come to true care for one another in a Kabbalistic sense-  and thus strengthen the ten and get ahead of these ups and downs or ins and outs , in other words strengthen the quality of our connection and help each other through phases of disconnection .

[Verena]

And one last question… If possible…

(It’s one question… can’t write it better)

… how do we truly keep the goal in our hearts, not in our minds, or in our egos? And in this, how do we really ask for correction and keep going in this direction- which may e a very unpleasant state in between- and not just because we are ordered, or „want“ it… , and how do we find guidance in this process? It’s so easy to get it wrong… what to look out for… and where to ask …(well, I an asking you know:))…

Thank you

[Verena]

Hi Gianni , another question… how do we manage to grow in a ten… and not stay on the same level?

And what differs individual work that needs to be done in everyone separately from the work the whole group has to do?

 

 

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Hi Gianni,

being at KabU I enjoy the pleasures and easiness and straightforwardness of a virtual environment. However, my experience is until now, that the biggest shifts , that really make me move and understand, happen in the physical world. They are rare , for the opportunities are rare… but it makes me wonder… what are actions of love towards the friends in a Kabbalistic sense, especially in a virtual environment?

And How can we practice to overcome our egos in this non-physical environment where we can ecxlude our senses, our body, our corporeal life with just one click… how do we still make this a „complete“ (I don’t have a better word) experience ?

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