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- July 20, 2020 at 1:14 pm EDT #33838

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- May 31, 2025 at 10:09 am EDT #440920
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesParticipantOne should not exert oneself to find romantic love before developing Love of Friends, right?
- May 31, 2025 at 10:39 am EDT #440922
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorNo, no – do whatever you want with romantic love. That’s nothing more than what birds do when the male dances in front of the female. It’s on the animate level. Kabbalah deals with higher things.
That said, Kabbalists always tried to be married so that the animate body of ours is taken care of and doesn’t bother us about that.
- May 31, 2025 at 10:54 am EDT #440923
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesParticipantOk. Must the other person have spiritual knowledge for the relationship to be successful? Love of fish may be a problem. Nobody likes to be used and left when “the magic” is gone.
- May 31, 2025 at 11:34 am EDT #440925
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorThey need to eventually learn that I’m on this path, for life, and a certain amount of my free time will be dedicated to it. And they need to fully support that.
- May 31, 2025 at 11:55 am EDT #440928
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesParticipantSupport? To accept it? Or more than that?
- May 31, 2025 at 12:00 pm EDT #440929
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorJust to support and not be against. They don’t need to study or be actively interested in it.
Look, I married someone who studied with us, and moreover I actively checked with others to ensure she was solidly a part of it. But that’s not required and may not even be possible for everyone. The standard is what I said: supportive and not against because this is my soul and you can take anything else from me but not this.
- May 31, 2025 at 12:12 pm EDT #440932
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesParticipantThis is an emptiness one feels, right? Should one pray for that person to come to one’s life?
- May 31, 2025 at 12:16 pm EDT #440933
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorIn the same vector as the spiritual work, one can also do things one needs to practically find someone.
But to clarify what you want and why, is already, along with the above mentioned, a sort of prayer
- May 31, 2025 at 12:55 pm EDT #440934
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesParticipantWow Thank you very much, dear Gianni. Any tips to “dance” properly? I know that’s on the corporeal level, but maybe I have to keep in mind something you know and I don’t.
- May 31, 2025 at 1:56 pm EDT #440939
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorNo, the only thing to have in mind is the goal of life. If that’s front of mind, the rest will be correct.
- May 26, 2025 at 8:31 pm EDT #440152
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesParticipantHello! Yesterday’s KES was awesome! I just wanted to check if I understood the idea well… According to what I understood, the meaning of the binding of Isaac is that we cannot really “kill” our ego directly (Isaac), but there are aspects of our desires and the ego that are “killable” (the ram they sacrificed instead) because of their animal/corporeal nature. Did I get it well? The masach is the one who gives us the ability to scrutinize those, right?
- May 26, 2025 at 11:56 pm EDT #440163
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorYes, the Will to receive is composed of many different parts, some we can work with now, some later, and some that can only be corrected at the End of Correction [gmar tikkun]. And we need the Masahch [screen] to identify them correctly.
- May 19, 2025 at 11:35 am EDT #438760
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesParticipantHello! I would like to know what my work should be when not in the group. What is my individual work to climb the ladder?
- May 19, 2025 at 11:39 am EDT #438762
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorFor now:
(1) I immerse in the writings of Kabbalists every chance I get, with the expectation that the Reforming Light will work on me
(2) I try to more deeply sense “There is none else besides Him,” that there is no other force working in reality
(3) I scrutinize my relationship to the group
- May 15, 2025 at 12:16 pm EDT #438270
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesParticipantHi! I would like to know what kabbalah says about the part of the bibble that has to do with Jesus (the new testament) Thank you in advance 😀
- May 15, 2025 at 12:21 pm EDT #438274
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorHere is a blog about this from Dr. Michael Laitman:
A question I received: The information you present to the world is fascinating. Everyone in my family is Orthodox Christian, and I’ve read the Bible and the New Testament since childhood. My question is: Where is Jesus Christ in your science? This worries me most of all, and is the only thing about your method that raises a concern.
My Answer: He’s absent, because I only base my teaching on the three main Kabbalists: Rashbi (The Book of Zohar), the Ari, and Baal HaSulam (view his available works in English). Just like any other science, Kabbalah bears no relation to any religion. It is the physics of forces that are perceived and examined through our sixth sense – the corrected desire.
In contrast, religion speaks about carrying out certain actions and rituals in our world, rather than correcting one’s egoism by means of the Upper Light. However, all religions want this action attributed to them.
- May 15, 2025 at 12:23 pm EDT #438275
Daniel Alvarez GrisalesParticipantWow that was fast! Thank you! 😀
- May 14, 2025 at 8:22 am EDT #438043
Hope Bandawe
ParticipantAs we see Elon Mask is that one of the person making kabalah to be here today?
- May 14, 2025 at 11:14 am EDT #438112
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorNo, I don’t think Elon has anything to do with Kabbalah. He has his own meaning of life (terraforming mars, making money, etc).
- May 11, 2025 at 6:44 pm EDT #437444
Michael
Participantwhat if you were like abused as a child and then you grow up to study kabbalah and the person who abused you shows up in the group… is it okay to avoid that person or do you like have to forgive them?
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- May 11, 2025 at 8:14 pm EDT #437451
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorAre we speaking only hypothetically?
Hypothetically, what was in the past, before Kabbalah, we don’t consider, and I need to work toward the society as if toward the Creator. All people regardless of their past will need to correct their souls and attain the Creator.
Of course, in practice, we always take the student’s feelings into careful account. It’s essential that each friend feels a sense of safety and trust within their spiritual environment.
The scenario you’ve described would be considered extremely serious and not something to treat lightly, and would require thoughtful and deliberate attention.
If this is a real situation you’re facing, then—for the sake of both your spiritual development and your personal sense of safety—please reach out to your instructors directly. Together, we will consider the appropriate steps to take and ensure you’re fully supported.
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