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- July 20, 2020 at 1:14 pm EDT #33838

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- May 14, 2025 at 8:22 am EDT #438043
Hope Bandawe
ParticipantAs we see Elon Mask is that one of the person making kabalah to be here today?
- May 14, 2025 at 11:14 am EDT #438112
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorNo, I don’t think Elon has anything to do with Kabbalah. He has his own meaning of life (terraforming mars, making money, etc).
- May 11, 2025 at 6:44 pm EDT #437444
Michael
Participantwhat if you were like abused as a child and then you grow up to study kabbalah and the person who abused you shows up in the group… is it okay to avoid that person or do you like have to forgive them?
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- May 11, 2025 at 8:14 pm EDT #437451
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorAre we speaking only hypothetically?
Hypothetically, what was in the past, before Kabbalah, we don’t consider, and I need to work toward the society as if toward the Creator. All people regardless of their past will need to correct their souls and attain the Creator.
Of course, in practice, we always take the student’s feelings into careful account. It’s essential that each friend feels a sense of safety and trust within their spiritual environment.
The scenario you’ve described would be considered extremely serious and not something to treat lightly, and would require thoughtful and deliberate attention.
If this is a real situation you’re facing, then—for the sake of both your spiritual development and your personal sense of safety—please reach out to your instructors directly. Together, we will consider the appropriate steps to take and ensure you’re fully supported.
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- May 11, 2025 at 1:20 pm EDT #437398
Makanda Bel
ParticipantHello, could you please provide me with prayers to attain prosperity and success, and to see my will come to fruition?
- May 11, 2025 at 3:35 pm EDT #437415
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorKabbalah doesn’t provide that because the Upper Force only answers prayers for Equivalence of Form with it. If I’m in the form of the Creator to some extent, things will be as good as they can be, taking into account that there is a plan for me, aimed at me becoming similar to the Creator and it won’t be compromised. It could be that there are things I’d like, which actually conflict with the Creator’s Will. That’s why it’s written, “Make your will as His Will” and He will satisfy your will.
- May 10, 2025 at 10:39 am EDT #437248
Makanda Bel
ParticipantHow can I fast in a way that aligns with spiritual principles to ensure my request is granted?
- May 10, 2025 at 8:01 pm EDT #437306
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorA fast as in not eating? The Creator doesn’t respond to that, and that’s why your prayer will not be granted. That’s why we don’t teach students to do that. It’s written that in prior generations there were such methods of mortification of the body. But Kabbalists made corrections within the spiritual system so that one no longer needed to do that, but could advance instead through the Reforming Light – and with that, the possibility of advancing through those old channels also became impossible.
- May 9, 2025 at 3:01 pm EDT #437165
Hope Bandawe
ParticipantIs giving the source of light or receiving?
- May 9, 2025 at 3:59 pm EDT #437179
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorHuman giving is a form of reception for oneself, disguised as giving.
The Creator’s giving is actual bestowal, which we call Light.
- May 9, 2025 at 10:16 am EDT #437111
EmilyParticipantHello, i am wondering what kabalah teaches us on addiction. Could be an obsession for a person or addiction to substance. Are we able to overcome addiction? And if so, what wisdom could you share please. Thank you
- May 10, 2025 at 8:12 am EDT #437234
Hope Bandawe
ParticipantOkay thanks, but I need your help about any kind job of job even in shop or house cleaner sorry if am mistaken .I am living in Malawi which is the poorest country with so many corruption and to find job is very difficult so if anyone on the group can help me can do so but sorry forgive me if I have done wrong here even God too can forgive me
- May 10, 2025 at 8:28 pm EDT #437311
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorWhile this is not a forum for that, Hope, we do feel for you, and we’ll think about you in hopes that you will have the basics you need, so that you can do your spiritual work.
- May 11, 2025 at 1:24 am EDT #437328
Hope Bandawe
ParticipantOkay thank you for the response
- May 9, 2025 at 11:30 am EDT #437119
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorHi Emily,
We are built like Pavlov’s Dogs, where every time we get pleasure from some source it reinforces our propensity to return to that source. Each time the pleasure enters us and departs, our desire for it increases with the feeling of missing it. But this is only up until a certain threshold beyond which the returns start diminishing, our pleasure decreases, and does so all the way down to zero pleasure, and even negative pleasure, until our life is wrapped in a veil of darkness, and the source of pleasure is no more, but I need that source now just to alleviate the darkness. Now begins a process whereby the darkness reduction starts diminishing. Say the pleasure has all but disappeared and in place of pleasure I have 100 grams of darkness. Now, instead of getting pleasure from the drug (or whatever) each time, I get only a reduction of this darkness. At first, it’s reduced 100%, then 90%, 80%, and so on until it can no longer affect the darkness – let alone provide any pleasure. All this is not even considering the effects on my body. This is how it is with every pleasure.
There is no solution in this world because that’s how we are built: we are meant to reach despair from reception in the above form, to see that it’s not just this way with this particular pleasure, but with all pleasures, and that the true pleasure is in another direction: bestowal outside myself, toward the Creator.
But on a simpler level, using the same principle, one needs to exchange the pleasure that controls him for another. For example, to engage in sport, exercise. This contradicts and cancels, to some extent, desires in the opposite direction. One has to fill one’s time, and the airways of one’s thought, with something else. There’s no other way. Unfortunately, we are built in an all-or-nothing kind of way. We either receive or bestow, are healthy or sick. It’s only possible to be in the middle after establishing a strong this-is-forever-and-all-there-is singularity on on the positive side.
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- May 11, 2025 at 1:48 am EDT #437335
Hope Bandawe
ParticipantAnd in spiritual way I am so ready to take anything from you in this forum,to be here it because of the creator via you and I was talking about that because spiritual works interrelate with physical so I tried my best to find a little and I put it in form of stock so that it help me and others in near future so now I know that this forum was created for spiritual purposes that creates everything okay in physical world that’s why I said please forgive me .But I am so happy with your response making us to be well connected in spiritual and physical.If I couldn’t have family I would not ask for that help but I would worked first for the spiritual
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