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Hi Melissa,
Restriction means to stop using the desire to receive. After the restriction comes the screen, which is an attempt to use the desire to receive in order to bestow. Check out the Guest and Host analogy in Chapter 3 of Attaining the Worlds Beyond for more details.
Albert @ KabU
I think part 2 video has Answered my question. 🙂 The influences slowly bring us to a place of finding the one influence that we can control. Is there a limit to the number of lives we have to succeed in this. ?
Hi Paul,
We’re not limited by the number of lives. Rather, the end goal is set. All of life is constantly pushing us to that goal. Our choice is in building for ourselves a spiritual environment, a type of spiritual incubator to help us speed up this process of reaching that goal, or wait for the pressures in life to build up and start pushing us towards that goal.
Check out this blog post from Rav Laitman for more details: https://laitman.com/2011/01/lets-go-with-the-light/
Albert @ KabU
This does make sense. I do question though. I have had some pretty remarkable synchronicities in the last few years that have brought me to this place of seeking. Without these things happening I may never have arrived at Kab U at all. I had been reading the Old Testament Literally, also the New Testament my whole life and I know it very well, but all of a sudden I began to see verses and meanings that I had been blind too. An example is In Luke 11;52 , Jesus talking to the Scribes and Pharisees . He says. ” Woe to you experts in the law ‘for you have taken away the KEYS of knowledge: you yourselves have not entered in, and those who were entering you have hindered.” That verse caused me to question my understanding of the entire new testament. I still knew that ” Love God and love thy neighbor as they self” Where his most important teachings. I am actually here trying to learn how to do both of those things to the fullest. I see wisdom here and I think you have the KEYS of Knowledge that are spoken of in that verse. I almost feel like I was led here. Yes I know I could make the choice to turn back but that doesn’t seem like a choice to me at this point. I also question about those who have not witnessed or been shown or been influenced in ways that we have. Is that free will ? or have they just not had the events or understandings that prompted me to keep searching ?
Hi Paul,
All of humanity is part of one system. In this system, we don’t choose when to be awakened, but rather there is a certain order of corrections that needs to take place, and each one receives a spiritual awakening when it’s his/her turn for correction.
It’s similar to building a house. There is a certain order in which you need to build it. For example, first you dig the foundation, then pour the concrete, lay the beams, etc, and only at the very end do you paint the house. Meaning that there is no point in even taking out the paintbrush before you finish all of the preliminary stages.
Likewise with us. Those that were awakened to this work first are like the foundation of the house while the rest of the world belongs to the later stages. So until those with awakened points in the hearts complete their correction, there is no point in even awakening the rest of the world for their correction. So we don’t need to wait for humanity to wake up, we need to finish our correction, and this will wake them up.
Albert @ KabU
Albert and Friends,
It’s interesting to learn that the spiritual environments I have experienced are appropriate for my ability to receive there. I truly appreciate this way of thinking because I am allowed to attain understanding myself. In the past we were told what to believe and very often many do not attain the understanding, they continue the ritual of it all. I have a new perception of even the people that I thought were hurtful to me that nothing can occur outside of our Creator.
This explains to me, how people can experience horrible occurrences for generations, but they have hope and not despair. I agree with Cristina that it is very difficult to move away from ego. I am free then to choose my connections. Am I on track?
Blessings to all!
Hi Loria,
Freedom means rising above our egoistic nature. As we learned in this week’s lesson, we do this by building for ourselves a strong spiritual environment.
Baal HaSulam talks about this in the article, the Freedom. He writes: “Harut (carved) on the tables”; do not pronounce it Harut (carved), but rather Herut (freedom), to show that they are liberated from the angel of death.
Throughout the article he explains how our current egoistic nature is that angel of death. Meaning although we are technically alive and surviving, relative to spirituality, our life is considered death. True life is within a completely different nature, that of bestowal. In order to reach freedom from our current nature, we need to choose and build a spiritual environment for ourselves which will influence us with the importance of acquiring the quality of bestowal.
For this reason, the Kabbalists equate our main freedom in life in choosing to be influenced by a spiritual environment. Not just any environment, but specifically a spiritual environment, since only through the spiritual environment can we get the importance of coming out of our egoistic nature and only through that environment can we draw the light that can help us to actualize this.
In the more advanced lessons, we’ll learn how to build this type of spiritual environment, in the meantime, check out this blog post from Rav Laitman for more details: https://laitman.com/2012/10/bestowal-should-become-fashionable/
Albert @ KabU
So, if I understand these lessons correctly, all of the external factors of my life are predetermined (who I will talk to today, where I will go, what I will eat for lunch, etc.) and my free will resides solely in my response to these events; my attitude towards them? And my attitude towards them should be focused on the Creator’s intention behind the events and loving others as myself? This is what I should be focusing on daily, as often as possible?
Hi Dustin,
Our freedom is in choosing to be influenced by a good spiritual environment. The rest, including our good thoughts and deeds, is a result of that influence. Baal HaSulam writes about it in the article “The Freedom” . Here’s an excerpt:
“However, there is freedom for the will to initially choose such an environment, such books, and such guides that impart upon him good concepts. If one does not do this but is willing to enter any environment that appears before him and read any book that falls into his hands, he is bound to fall into a bad environment or waste his time on worthless books, which are abundant and more accessible. In consequence, he will be forced into foul concepts that make him sin and condemn. He will certainly be punished, not because of his evil thoughts or deeds, in which he has no choice, but because he did not choose to be in a good environment, for in this there is definitely a choice.
Therefore, he who strives to continually choose a better environment is worthy of praise and reward. But here, too, it is not because of his good thoughts or deeds, which come to him without his choice, but because of his effort to acquire a good environment, which brings him these good thoughts and actions.”
Albert @ KabU
This aspect of Spirituality that we refer to as the “free will” of the person living in this “world” is one of the most interesting and seemingly contradictory.
In the “Related” section for this week, there is a video by Rav Laitman titled, “There Is None Else Besides Him | Fundamentals of Kabbalah | Webinar with Kabbalist Dr. Laitman” that would be very helpful for everyone to watch because it addresses this issue of “free will” directly. Here’s the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_O07Nz1nt8.
In Albert’s response to Patricia above he says, “Yes, this follows the saying that: the Creator puts man’s hand on the good fate and says “choose this for yourself”. Meaning He awakened your point in the heart and brought it to a good spiritual environment in which you can nourish it. After that the rest is up to you.”
My question to Albert then is, Who is this “you” that you refer to, as “the rest is up to you.” In this video, Rav Laitman is answering many questions from groups around the world, and he is pretty clear that there really is no other Presence, no other Being except the Creator.
Yes, He created the Creation but is this Separate from Him? Yes, initially we are taught that quality-wise, being receivers for our “selves” and He being the only Bestower, we are opposites. But this is only a way of looking at things from our temporary experience of believing we could actually BE separate. But Who put “us” in this state? There is only the Creator, there is no “other”, not you, not me, not anyone, not anything. He IS the ONE and the ONLY. The seemingness of separation is just an illusion that He Himself created for Himself, for His own Purposes. It is His Way of appreciating His Own Godliness. But there is no Actual separate you and me to share in this appreciation. He really is the only ONE.
Rav Laitman did say in this video that he Knows himself to be One with the Creator. In this state, and only in this state of Actual, and Eternal Attainment of Oneness with the Creator can “you” dissipate the illusion of being a separate ego, and merge into your Eternal Essence, your Actual Uniqueness as an aspect of the Creator. There never was a separation, there never was a journey from uncorrected to correction. Now your Real Will to only receive to Bestow is One with Creator’s Only Will to Bestow, and this is the only Actual Free Will that is possible. He only chooses to Bestow to Himself in all the infinitude of Unique Aspects of Himself that He has Created. There is no Actual “other”. This has always been Reality for all of Eternity, and could never BE any other way.
Blessings to all.
Hi John,
In practice, we cannot defer to “there is none else besides Him” if we have not attained that for ourselves.
Check out this blog post from Rav Laitman for more details: https://laitman.com/2014/10/if-i-am-not-for-myself-then-no-one-will-help-me/
Attaining that state works according to the law of equivalence of form. Meaning that in order to attain spirituality, we first need to become similar to it, to the spiritual qualities of love and bestowal. But since this is completely against our nature, we need a supportive environment that will help us in achieving this goal.
It’s just like with the example of going to the gym and lifting weights. Naturally this is something extremely painful and unpleasant. But when we’re under a good influence of the gym environment, have friends that value such things, read lots of articles about staying healthy etc, we begin to enjoy these things. And what was previously a painful activity turns into something pleasurable. It all depends on the influence of the environment.
So through the spiritual environment, we get the necessary support and importance of coming out of our egoistic nature. And even more importantly, through that same spiritual environment we draw the force of the light in order to actualize this change. For this reason, the Kabbalists equate our main freedom in life in choosing to be influenced by a good spiritual environment.
Check out this blog post from Rav Laitman for more details: https://laitman.com/2012/10/bestowal-should-become-fashionable/
Albert @ KabU
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