Share something from the lesson that you found insightful, or share your impressions from the exercise.

[Tal Mandelbaum]

Share something from the lesson that you found insightful, or share your impressions from the exercise.

[Abbaa Naa’ol]

 

 

This reflection really hits home. What stood out most to me was the idea that a smile—especially when it feels forced—can still be powerful. It’s not about pretending everything’s fine, but about choosing connection over ego. That shift from “I don’t feel like it” to “I’ll do it anyway because it nurtures the relationship” is such a gentle but profound act of love.

The insight that smiling isn’t deception but rather a way to disarm our own defenses is beautiful. It reminds me that sometimes the smallest gestures—like a smile, a kind word, or a thoughtful favor—can soften tension and open doors to deeper understanding.

Let’s soften our ego with love, one step at a time. Start by simply smiling—even if it feels forced. Studies show that even a fake smile can lift your mood and improve your relationships.

Smiling at your partner, especially when things feel tense, isn’t fake—it’s a way to calm your ego and show care. That small gesture can make them feel seen, supported, and loved.

 

[Nikole Roehl]

altruism…..

[Helen]

I understand the theory, but how do you actually raise above your feels and ego? because it’s against your nature… I will start with smiling.

[Stephanie]

It is very challenging to operate from a non egosistic state in a relationship !

[Brendan]

Smiling is a wonderful tool for yourself and others.

[Mel Farrell]

Very helpful to learn about what I see in another is actually a mirror of myself

[Author]

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