[Sean]

By changing our desire from receiving to bestowal.

[Sean]

I would like to learn how to stop relying so much on blind faith and take control of my life.

[Sean]

By changing your intention from receiving to bestowal, you receive to give. This means the pleasure from receiving isn’t filling some personal need, so it will grow and not diminish.

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[Sean]

Give without any expectation of person gain. More specifically, care more for the wellbeing of those you are giving to than to yourself and your own wants and needs.

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[Sean]

You can’t. Not as long as you are receiving for yourself. You have to receive with the intention to bestow.

[Sean]

Yes. Most of the time I’m oblivious to it, but there are times it’s very obvious, like when I self-sabotage. Even then it’s my nature to blame someone else or blame the circumstances rather than to see it for what it really is. Ego is very cunning.

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