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[Gil]

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[mrc s]

What man wants to pray to obtain Lishma as it is not for receiving? How can we do this?

[Chris – KabU Instructor]

This is exactly Lo Lishma. We certainly aren’t able of even imagining what it is to bestow when all we have are vessels of reception. The desire is what we need to develop and gradually the light works on us and brings us new desires and eventually a true desire to bestow to the Creator without any return for ourselves.

[mrc s]

Should we pray for vessels of bestowal even though we want it to receive Spiritual pleasure? Is this the beginning of Lishma?

[Chris – KabU Instructor]

Hey mrc,

This is called Lo Lishma! Nice.

[mrc s]

Is bestowing to bestow more easy than receiving to bestow? But I still can’t do both right before entering Spirituality?

[Chris – KabU Instructor]

“Easy” and “Hard” only have to do with what we are capable of handling. You could say in the weight room, lifting 100kg is hard, and 1kg is easy. In spirituality, the question is similar–are you capable of it or not? Do you have a sufficient Masach to reject anything you would receive for yourself and receive only what you are able to bestow. Bestowing in order to bestow is a different question since there you’re not even engaging the desire to receive, you’re not using it. It’s difficult to compare 1st grade and 5th grade. Certainly you couldn’t go from 1st to 5th but once you traverse each grade, you accumulate the necessary means to succeed in 5th.

Thanks!

[humehr garivani]

Hello

after i bestow i get tired and i feel empty.

how can i get energy for bestow?

[Chris – KabU Instructor]

Hey humehr,

We have no ability to bestow by ourselves. The whole concept of “prayer” is to pinpoint the desire for this as well as the recognition that we’re unable to do it without the Creator’s help. This is MAN and MAD.
“Energy” comes from above.

Thanks!

[mrc s]

Is it good to pray for ourselves first then to others and why.?

[Chris – KabU Instructor]

Hey mrc,

I answered this in a previous post below.

Thanks!

[mrc s]

Is praying more easy than doing good? Like if praying for others can be more often than doing good?

[Chris – KabU Instructor]

“Doing good”, meaning an action, in spirituality is called “intention”. If your intention is to do good, this means you’re asking for the quality of bestowal, the strength to bestow and with this strength given from above you can “do good”.

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