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- July 20, 2020 at 1:14 pm EDT #33838
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- September 21, 2023 at 12:17 pm EDT #331299Jarrett TwaddleParticipant
May I ask, what is the meaning of Shamati 183?
- September 23, 2023 at 12:42 am EDT #331399Chris – KabU InstructorModerator
Hi Jarrett,
When the Rabash wrote Shamati [I heard] (as I’m sure you’ve heard), he was simply writing things he heard his teacher, Baal HaSulam say–whether it be at certain holiday events, meals, lessons etc. This just happens to be something he heard and thought it was important to write down. Just because it’s in Shamati doesn’t mean it needs to be some drawn-out explanation or article, it just means it was worthwhile to write down.
What does it mean? Not completely sure…I understand that Messiah of Yosef is Yesod and David is Malchut and correction occurs when Malchut rises to Bina.
There might be more explanation in TES, but with slightly different names perhaps.
Sorry I couldn’t be more helpful than that, thanks!
Chris
- September 20, 2023 at 8:49 pm EDT #331270Jarrett TwaddleParticipant
Does the prohibition on slander apply to false prophets? Meaning, if I state that Saul/Paul was an idolater, am I slandering the creator?
- September 21, 2023 at 2:23 am EDT #331285Chris – KabU InstructorModerator
Hi Jarrett,
In general, this applies to our egoistic eyes and our mind which serves the egoistic desire which sees everything through the quality of reception and not through the quality of the Creator. This essentially means we’re slandering the Creator all the time. There’s a difference doing it without knowing and doing it knowingly. When we’re aware of it, we at least have to opportunity to notice and aim to want something else. This “recognition of evil” is how we gradually come to despise the quality of reception and cry out for the opposite. It’s all part of the program.
Thanks!
Chris
- September 20, 2023 at 3:14 am EDT #331229mrc sParticipant
What if my natural desires doesn’t match the order of kabbalistic importance?.
- September 21, 2023 at 9:21 am EDT #331291Jarrett TwaddleParticipant
Thank you, Chris!
- September 21, 2023 at 2:19 am EDT #331283Chris – KabU InstructorModerator
Hey mrc,
Our natural desire will always be against acquiring the quality of bestowal, that’s for sure. This is exactly why we need to find an environment that will push us towards a desire that is unnatural to us – if the society holds that quality in high regard, and I hold the society in high regard, I will want what they want. This is how it works and it’s why Kabbalists operate this way.
Thanks!
Chris
- September 18, 2023 at 2:06 am EDT #331049humehr garivaniParticipant
Hello good morning
How i can open my heart? is there a practical way that help like a god name or a prayer?
What is usage of sephirots? how i use them? or it’s just a structure and don’t have usage.
- September 18, 2023 at 12:42 pm EDT #331092Chris – KabU InstructorModerator
Hi Humehr,
This is something we learn through experience. Each attempt at trying to do this action or scrutinize what it mean, peeling apart this concept and delving deeper into it brings us clarity. You don’t need to recite prayers or any mantra and using “Sefirot” has nothing to do with our imagination. All of it will become clear if you’re able gradually come closer to rising above the ego. That’s it. Kabbalah is essentially saying the same thing over and over, just with slightly different flavors and words: perception of this world means I’m using my ego to interpret everything, perception of the spiritual means I’m acquired the quality of nature and act accordingly.
Opening the heart is another way of saying you care about others more than yourself. This is how the upper force behaves and so it’s how we want to behave so we can identify with it, become similar to it and work in partnership. This is our ultimate fulfillment but it’s also against our given nature. This is why it’s hidden from us and it’s why our logical brain doesn’t work to our benefit. Opening the heart is bringing the emotion into the driver’s seat and trying to “feel” our way around.
Best of luck, thanks!
Chris
- September 18, 2023 at 10:30 am EDT #331078MalkaParticipant
I think your hart is already open, maybe there are one or few specific individual, punctual cases that you haven’t finish forgive it or that, some cases are harder than others and take more effort, understanding or only evaluate more detailed. I am not an specialist only that I think I have been somewhere around those corners. All the best (About the Sephirots, I live it for a more expertise than me)
- September 18, 2023 at 4:27 pm EDT #331104Zealot MinesParticipant
Hi Chris, some more clarification, and thanks for your response. I remembered a comment by Igal during the retreat that’s it’s is recommended we practice opening our hearts and bestowal to/in the 10. Not anywhere else. Most of the information we learn here is to be practiced in the 10 only..
- September 17, 2023 at 10:41 am EDT #331008Bolevia RambaranParticipant
If someone (family member ) has abuse you  as a child and you have devise a way of living with the trauma, which is  strictly avoid being in the same space with that person. You have forgiven the person but you just don’t want anything to do with him., because he is not interested in admitting and apologizing to you. Is this healthy for the soul
- September 18, 2023 at 12:34 pm EDT #331090Chris – KabU InstructorModerator
Hey Bolevia,
That’s not exactly in the realm of questions about Kabbalah, although I understand what you’re getting at.
A person has basic needs of food, shelter, money etc., and then there’s the “mental health” which really just points at a person’s general well-being. There are things we need to do to make sure we’re set up as much as possible in this world. Kabbalah doesn’t help get you a job, or a partner and likewise, it doesn’t solve these types of issues either. What Kabbalah does is raise a person’s perspective to something higher, more inclusive and ultimately spiritual. If you think you’re still not “healthy”, you’d need to take the same approach as you would with a broken arm – not healthy > goes to doctor (or comparable).
We exist in a reality where we rely on one another whether we like it or not. This is how it was built for us. Therefore, we need to use the systems set up in place to help us when we need help. Kabbalah deals with the point in the heart of a person. All of our other needs are treated in this world.
I hope that’s clear and I hope you can find peace through any means.
Thanks and all the best,
Chris
- September 15, 2023 at 11:44 am EDT #330904Troy AlbrightParticipant
Hello friends and instructors. I’m reading for the 2nd time the book “The Egoist” by Jesse Bogner. I purchased this from the KabU bookstore. Is Jesse still a member of Bnei Baruch? This book has helped me in many ways. I recommend it for anyone dealing with addiction. I also own his second book “Tikkunim” but the bookstore does not sell it.
- September 18, 2023 at 12:11 pm EDT #331089Chris – KabU InstructorModerator
Yeah Jesse passionately wrote a couple of books during his time with us.
He’s recently moved on.
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