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We will judge them, always; even if we think we’re not judging. This is our nature, there’s nothing to do about it, except to understand that this is our nature. Because I live in a world where there appear to be others around me, and my whole self-value is based on comparison with others. If another seems better than me, I must justify myself. That’s why it’s better for me if they are diminished. And this whole calculation is mostly done beneath the threshold of my awareness. So, I don’t need to try to suppress judgement because I won’t be successful in this, but only in justifying myself even more, which is, ironically, an even bigger lie that I’ll then be under. Instead, I need to work on raising the importance of connection with others above our differences. And we truly are immeasurably different and incomparable. Our inability to accept anyone as greater and the reason my defense against that lowers them is that truly each one feels himself as special and is very special and is unique and incomparably important in the system to which we all belong. Each one would feel himself as a king if he knew his value in the spiritual system, but that’s all concealed for now. So, we need to read the books that are about this system of connection (the wisdom of Kabbalah) and try to become more adapted to it. To those who are not awakened to the system of Kabbalah what you can do is learn the language of integral education, which is the wisdom of Kabbalah but without any words like spiritual, Creator, Upper World, the soul, etc. Only connection. Connection is good because all of nature IS connected, and in harmony, except humans, who trample the Earth and each other, causing an imbalance in the whole system, primarily in the force of attitude between us.
If we would try, even a little, to come closer to one another, there is a force in nature that can totally invert the egoistic connections among us to love. It sounds impossible because it is impossible within our nature. But this force is standing by, and it is capable. It only requires an invitation from us, through actions, that we want to be connected, though we can’t be. There is so little left to do in this world for humanity besides have a third and fourth world war that we should hope that those who already have an awakening in this direction will make their corrections quickly, since this awakens additional layers within humanity, to be able to open their ears to this. It can happen very quickly as people have absolutely nothing to look forward to in this world; and a wondrous adventure awaiting them in the connection between them.
Sorry I missed this excellent question, Yaneth. We can manage it not by any of the mechanisms the ego has devised in our world. That won’t work, as we see by our centuries of trying to balance the relations between people and nations. In fact, we’re no longer able to create harmony even in a single village. The ego, which is the force of separation between people, has grown to such an extent that truly we need the help of an Upper Force, to invert these relations so that we will be in Equivalence with that Upper Force and behave as if in an integral system, as Kabbalists write, “as one man in one heart.” The realistic starting point for this is that I start with myself, the correction of my attitude towards the world. Afterwards, I’ll be able to explain to others how to do it and what a sublime reality is being concealed from us only because of our disconnectedness.
