Hi Humehr,

You’ll need only to work to reveal the Creator through work with others, then you’ll know how to use all the qualities He gave you for the good of all of reality and for His sake.

Thanks!

Chris

Good question,Brad. The work you will have between you and the ten will certainly be aided if your partner studies as well but the spiritual work of overcoming is only there, and not within the family. This is a natural structure that He provides and brings husband and wife together whereas work between friends in the ten begins from complete zero. You’ll definitely be able to use concepts and scrutinies you accumulate to help you relate to your partner where you don’t forget that it all come from Him, which will help you relate to that structure and the rest of the world more correctly, and with time it will become just another face of the Creator, but you’ll always only turn to Him through the ten.

Best of luck,

Chris

Hi Brad,

The shame Kabbalists speak about, even “hell” is only in relation to someone who has already attained the opposite quality -revealed bestowal. The horrors and tragedies or shame in this egoistic perception is still within only the ego, lacking the complete perception which would allow a person to define a state of hell or the opposite. Understanding His providence cannot be attained in this incomplete perception.

If we work to reveal how He relates to us by trying to become like Him, to attain His mind and His thought, this is what will open up to us how to truly relate to His providence which will surely only be when we can recognize it’s done only with completele love and bestowal towards us at all times.

Chris

I myself think that I do not have a balance between Chesed and Geborah
And I don’t know how to balance this

Hey Ricardo,

True equivalence of form is only possible if we are above our egos. This pleasant feeling you mentioned is simply egoistic pleasure, although there are roots in this pleasure, like any other pleasure, that stem from our interaction with the upper force, but what we feel while that force is concealed and we are opposite to it is only egoistic sensations –  to receive for ourselves.

No worries though. The more you progress you’ll be able to distinguish these things yourself and you can identify in what direction you need to go in order to discover true equivalence.

Thanks!

Chris