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- July 20, 2020 at 1:14 pm EDT #33838

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- June 14, 2026 at 7:18 pm EDT #502949
JohnnyParticipantHow do I reconcile my hatred for the world & love for the friends
- June 14, 2026 at 7:48 pm EDT #502950
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorWorking on love of friends, to really feel them close to your heart, will correct one’s attitude to all of reality. Hatred of the world is disagreement with the Creator, who does all things and only does good. There are no people in the world who have any kind of free choice, except for the illusion that they are deciding what they do. So, I disagree with the Creator who is the one whose operating these puppets. It turns out that I want the Creator to change; while the Creator wants me to change first. I work on that change in the way I constantly upgrade my attitude to the friends. And I can start changing my attitude to the Creator by at least recognizing that it is with Him that I disagree and that that is not how I want to be. I want to agree with Him and change myself.
- June 6, 2026 at 7:35 am EDT #502198
BradParticipantI told a rabbi in a debate “the attainment comes first; it is followed by the actions that stem from it.”
His response….But the Torah reverses this sequence explicitly and deliberately.
At Sinai, Israel says:
“We will do, and we will hear.”
– Exodus 24:7
Action precedes full understanding. This isn’t a deficiency to be corrected later. The Talmud calls this statement Israel’s greatest moment of spiritual clarity.
Doing before fully comprehending is not the lower stage – it is the covenantal structure.
The Sefer HaChinuch states that character follows action —
the heart is drawn after deeds.
Attainment grows through physical performance, not as a prerequisite to it.
End quote***
Aren’t there examples of the patriarchs even going back to adam that they attained spirituality before the Torah was given? Before the temples was built? What does “we will do and we will listen” really mean regarding action first?
- June 6, 2026 at 10:41 am EDT #502208
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorHe’s right. He’s doing a good job, let him be. If let’s say I have such an argument can turn his world upside down; so then I erase him: he must drop everything and study Kabbalah. And in that, he’s no longer a Rav or anything else but someone who has to begin from zero. It’s forbidden to wrestle down a religious person. Besides, he has a role too.
For Kabbalists, “we shall do” means that toward the next degree, I’m always like a child, zero, a beginner. I have to thus go above reason, and then after I fully do that, I’ll “hear”, understand, attain.
- June 6, 2026 at 6:22 am EDT #502195
BradParticipantI need to pull myself back into study. Rav says how important it is to be aligned with weekly torah portion. And we are encouraged to watch morning lessons from Israel. But the diaspora is a week behind. What do you do?
- June 6, 2026 at 10:49 am EDT #502210
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorUnsolvable problem of spacetime.
There’s an inanimate level propriety to certain things. But Kabbalists worry about that only in a secondary way. Extreme example: Kabbalists from Kotsk celebrated Shabbat on a Wednesday- if that’s when they reached that state. That’s not for our kindergarten to start toying with. But the most important flow to be in is that of the world Kli. What everyone is doing will be closest to the goal because even wrong together is blessed.
- June 2, 2026 at 3:43 am EDT #501738
JelenaParticipantHi!
I’m so grateful to finally be on this journey I didn’t realise I was seeking up until a few weeks ago 🙂 . I’m finishing my second semester of the course, and so far it’s made everything feel like it’s falling into place — life makes much more sense and I’m enthusiastic to learn more.
However, around the lesson “There is none but Him,” an intense feeling of emptiness appeared out of nowhere. I can’t explain it as a reaction to anything in my daily life — on the contrary, I’ve generally felt balanced. It is unlike anything I’ve experienced before. My usual self-regulating routines (painting, running, meditating, CBT, sleep, diet…anything) don’t touch it. In fact, as the beneficial effects of those actions fade, the void intensifies. When I focus on it, I get instantly overwhelmed (as if I am suddenly breathing the air with insufficient oxygen is best I can describe it). As someone with a counselling background, this is baffling to me. It’s an intense sense of lack that I can’t locate or rationally explain. If it’s related to the course, it doesn’t feel at all like what one would expect “drawing the Light” to feel like — rather the opposite. I might be missing or misinterpreting something. It’s starting to affect my daily life and is making it difficult to stay motivated. It’s been a few weeks and it’s wearing me down.
I’m not sure what this is, but it seems like it may need regulation on a spiritual level? If so, I would be grateful if you could share resources or advice to help me understand and address this state.
Thank you
- June 2, 2026 at 4:27 pm EDT #501802
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorHi Jelena,
I can only say that it’s normal and part of the process. There exist a number of states before a person, which are predefined. One of them is the emergence of the Point in the Heart. It doesn’t belong to this world. What is it actually? The rest of this world is one’s desires to receive pleasure, while now appears within me a desire that isn’t like those desires. Were it for ice cream, I’d know what to do – but with this new desire, it’s in me, bothering me, because it’s a desire that has no fulfilment in our world. One of the most intense desires I’ve seen is a long-time smoker who for many hours now can’t smoke. Now you can offer him any other pleasure in the world – he’s truly not interested in those, but only in the one, most important thing for him right now: smoking. But at least he knows what he needs. With the Point in the Heart, I can’t find fulfillment for it because its fulfilment is truly across a Barrier that separates our world from the spiritual world. As with the smoker for whom food, sex, family, money, etc. ar all fine but don’t give him the only thing he really wants and therefore these pleasures become quite muted for him, the Point in the Heart is really the most vitally important thing in reality, and thus dims other pleasures. So what do I do? I need to develop this Point in the Heart to a greater extent so that inside it I can begin to feel the spiritual reality. It’s like a dot of matter inside a womb. What I feel in it is barely called existence yet. It’s some preliminary cells. If it develops, it will start feeling the spiritual reality. It’s my soul, an eternal thing, the feeling of which transforms my whole feeling of reality.
In short, it’s a stage one just has to go through.
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- May 30, 2026 at 7:52 am EDT #501528
figo didoParticipantHi!o have been working on most desires.but with smoking I don’t know how to work with it above the reason that it is illegal here and I live in a constant fear of arrest however whenever I smoke weed and study or read I grasp matters .I don’t struggle with it but lacking it can cause me doubts in my path..how do I see the need for lishma even in this ‘public loathsomeness’ …I m trying to get around my ego in any my argument with the habit…. I haven’t any issues with anyone yet but paranoia ghosts me daily tormenting me causing me to doubt my Faith or rather feeding the sitra(evil inclination).. Casting doubt as to whether hiding staff and my self is fear of nothing (idolatry) or if it is wisdom (such like as Jacob dealing with Esau (all the times).?Where do I classify this degree of doubt?…
Thanks- May 30, 2026 at 11:10 am EDT #501531
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorThe truth is that all one’s desires are, by design, utterly for oneself, and all I can do is what’s called exchanging a cow for a donkey. I change this egoistic desire for another egoistic calculation. What I need is only to draw the Surrounding Light from the study and the work with the spiritual society. That will make the corrections. And a better focus from moment to moment is to try to be in the feeling that the Creator controls all of reality. Me, my thoughts, everything.
- May 28, 2026 at 7:00 pm EDT #501463
Yeabsera
ParticipantAll my life ive had an issue with being insecure, about alot of things, weight, looks, culture etc, then as i grow older it has shifted to comparison, fear of failure, rejection, jealousy, not being enough, being replaced. I struggle ALOT with these thoughts and feelings and im exhuasted and tired of how it affects me and the people around me.
What can a person do to just not be insecure anymore?? How do we change the thoughts of fear and understadn where its coming from in the first place?
- May 28, 2026 at 7:56 pm EDT #501466
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorHi Yeabsera,
The answer is here: https://kabbalahmedia.info/en/sources/udjDlN06
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- May 29, 2026 at 8:10 am EDT #501479
Yeabsera
ParticipantSo my understanding is that there is no coincidence when fear/insecurity pops up the goal should be to seek the ends (the reason I’m feeling this?) and then come to a conclusion that it’s because of the creator testing me and then feel there is none else besides him?
- May 29, 2026 at 9:07 am EDT #501483
Gianni – KabU InstructorModeratorYou won’t know the reason because you don’t sense the forces that stand behind this picture, but yes, your response should be to address what you must according to the ways of our world, but relate internally to them as if they come from a single Upper Force.
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