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- July 18, 2024 at 9:09 pm EDT #381701GregParticipant
Hi, I’m a little conflicted. I think I heard the Rav say that we should just live our Corporeal life as normal, and not worry about changing anything. Maybe I am misunderstanding what the Rav was saying…
1) If what I am learning on the path of Kaballah and truly want to work toward spiritual altruism; but my daily life to survive in this world requires reception (because my business needs to turn a profit), I feel very incongruent. How do you separate the two, if that is what we are supposed to do?
2) If I do the work with the help of the Rav, authentic sources and the friends and are working in the spiritual world, because our world as Tony would put it is the world of results, how does that affect our day to day life if at all?
- July 18, 2024 at 10:03 pm EDT #381706Gianni – KabU InstructorModerator
Hi Greg,
You eventually resolve this inner dilemma without compromising your business needs. Baal HaSulam’s teacher was a successful businessman, but no one knew that he was a Kabbalist – and there were many others like that. While a Kabbalist has a biological body, he has to exist under the conditions the Creator made on the level of reality that body inhabits. If around me is a capitalist system, I have to work accordingly – like what’s normal among my contemporaries. And without injecting Kabbalistic principles into it. That is, we’re not bringing spirituality down into this world, but rather elevating to the spiritual world. If we want to correct this world, it’s all in the intention. Later, everyone will see that only that needed to be changed, and all that we did – wars, suffering – was only to avoid changing that. That’s why the wisdom of Kabbalah is all about changing the intention from reception to bestowal.
- July 17, 2024 at 8:09 pm EDT #381638Kimadigital7Participant
What does the Kabbalists describe this game called “The Tug of War” and how can we use it in the ten?
We have point A and point B and between those points there is a straight line. Each point wants to win by pulling the rope with a force so that point A or point B should cross the line. What does point A, point B, Rope and also, the middle line mean? What does it teaches us?Just had a thought about it and decided to ask. Thank you.
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- July 17, 2024 at 8:16 pm EDT #381641Gianni – KabU InstructorModerator
I haven’t heard it described that way, but yes, each is unique and is inclined to pull in his direction. Like political parties, one can’t understand the other, unless Above Reason, and then they meet in the middle line. All turn out to be correct together and wrong alone.
- July 16, 2024 at 6:58 am EDT #381532AspiringAltruistParticipant
Question: How do I Overcome Self-Loathing Due to the Recognition of the Evil Inclination?
I recently attended a workshop where we discussed the concept of “feeling the friends.” One of the excerpts we read, from Baal HaSulam’s “The Essence of Religion and Its Purpose,” delved into the idea of the evil inclination. The article explained that as we develop spiritually, we increasingly loathe our own egoism. The more developed we become, the more we reject our egoism and start to feel sparks of altruism.
Here is the excerpt:
“Baal HaSulam, ‘The Essence of Religion and Its Purpose’
The crass, undeveloped person does not recognize egoism as bad at all. Therefore, he uses it openly, without any shame or restraint, stealing and murdering in broad daylight wherever he can. The somewhat more developed sense some measure of their egoism as bad and are at least ashamed to use it in public, stealing and killing openly. But in secret, they still commit their crimes, but are careful that no one will see them.
The even more developed sense egoism as so loathsome that they cannot tolerate it in them and reject it completely, as much as they detect of it, until they cannot, and do not want to enjoy the labor of others. Then begin to emerge in them sparks of love of others, called ‘altruism,’ which is the general attribute of goodness.”
While I understand that recognizing and rejecting our egoism is a necessary part of spiritual development, I find myself in a miserable state, loathing myself for these traits. I know there is no mitzvah in suffering, but I feel stuck and unable to see beyond this stage. How can I navigate this difficult phase of development and move towards a more positive and altruistic mindset? Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated.
- July 16, 2024 at 3:59 pm EDT #381555Gianni – KabU InstructorModerator
We need to accept that after that, egoism 2.0 is wanting me to regret and suffer from my egoism instead of ascribing it all to the Creator. This is my work again and again each moment, locating where the Creator is shattered in my perception, into pieces that have their own volition. When I come to “There is None Besides Him” then I know that I have nothing to feel bad about and that only He can change this nature that He’s created.
- July 15, 2024 at 1:58 am EDT #381386Kimadigital7Participant
I want to seem like a burden to me…
Do I want to connect with the friends or the Creator needs me to connect with the friends?
- July 15, 2024 at 1:32 pm EDT #381455Gianni – KabU InstructorModerator
The Creator doesn’t need anything. I need to connect with the friends because that’s the Vessel where the Creator is revealed.
- July 17, 2024 at 4:48 am EDT #381601Kimadigital7Participant
The Creator doesn’t need anything, though I don’t yet understand that concept for now. I accept it.
Each time I hear of “the revelation of the Creator to His creatures” in this world, it takes the burden from me to Him. Meaning I am doing it for His sake and not me.
The “His” changes my perception.
1- Is that the right action or the right thinking?
2- What is that burden that I feel? Why would He make His creature to feel that burden?
- This reply was modified 4 months, 1 week ago by Kimadigital7.
- July 17, 2024 at 4:24 pm EDT #381632Gianni – KabU InstructorModerator
Yes, this is how you help Him realize the goal of Creation. We feel it as a burden because our nature is to be concerned with ourselves. For that we have fuel. For taking care of the whole rest of Creation, we have no fuel. We need to feel this so we will see where our limit is and where we need His help.
- July 17, 2024 at 7:12 pm EDT #381635Kimadigital7Participant
…”this is how you help Him realize the goal of Creation”… By helping Him, meaning to help the friends? If yes, how can I help the friends to realise the goal of creation?
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- July 17, 2024 at 8:16 pm EDT #381642Gianni – KabU InstructorModerator
Like Rabash says, what each is missing, no matter who they are, is the mood, which can always be elevated.
- July 15, 2024 at 2:32 pm EDT #381471Kimadigital7Participant
What is the condition for connection?
Thank, you
- July 17, 2024 at 4:42 am EDT #381599Kimadigital7Participant
Thank you.
- This reply was modified 4 months, 1 week ago by Kimadigital7.
- July 15, 2024 at 2:39 pm EDT #381472Gianni – KabU InstructorModerator
– Importance of the goal, first of all – otherwise why connect?
– your willingness to nullify before the friends
– the response from the Upper Light, to connect you
- July 15, 2024 at 2:52 pm EDT #381475Kimadigital7Participant
That question has make me to increase the importance of the goal. The more we yearn for connection the more we give the goal its importance.
Thank you.
- July 14, 2024 at 8:48 pm EDT #381366Kimadigital7Participant
According to the wisdom of Kabbalah, I heard that a person cannot achieve spirituality alone unless they are two or three etc. If they both agree and connect together then the Creator will be revealed between them
1- I wish to ask, what does between mean?
- July 14, 2024 at 10:28 pm EDT #381375Gianni – KabU InstructorModerator
Hi Kima,
Between means beyond one’s skin, everywhere except in my “I”, in the connection of the friends, the Creator is revealed.
- July 15, 2024 at 2:45 pm EDT #381473Kimadigital7Participant
‘I’ can only feel the ‘between’ only when ‘I’Â have achieved connection with the friends?
- July 15, 2024 at 2:52 pm EDT #381474Gianni – KabU InstructorModerator
What’s between you is the Creator, and He’s only felt when the relationships between you are similar to what should be between you and the Creator. So, you don’t feel Him until you’re correctly connected to the friends.
- July 17, 2024 at 7:20 pm EDT #381637Kimadigital7Participant
Ah! Thank you
- July 12, 2024 at 7:08 am EDT #379712GregParticipant
In the sources, the word Demand is used quite frequently. Such as the Demand for the Reforming Light. Why is the word Demand used instead of Ask? Demand has quite a different connotation in my mind. Is it not disrespectful to Demand something from the creator instead of Asking because the granting of a request is his will not mine?
- July 12, 2024 at 7:52 pm EDT #381194Gianni – KabU InstructorModerator
Hi Greg,
These are different approaches to the Upper Force, and both are welcome. The thing is, the Upper Force doesn’t receive a request from me as from a man. It’s disrespectful for a man to come to me and demand anything. But when my baby demands, it’s actually adorable. I’m even proud that he is learning how to stand up for himself somewhat. It’s not in his powers to disrespect me, you understand. The Upper Force, in the best case, treats us as a baby from whom it adores any request or demand, the more specific and cogent, the more contentment we give the Creator.
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