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Yes, it’s a process and it takes time for any person to hear deeply and accept the fences of discourse within the ten – while still maximally participating. As I said previously, the only currency between friends is greatness of the spiritual goal, conveyed through all kinds of tactics: you have to give them such importance of the goal that reality changes for them. One’s reality is a lie to begin with; we need to sell each other the truth, that we’re connected, filled with the Light of the Creator, receiving nothing for ourselves, only receiving all the goodness in our connection, thus giving them such importance Creator great contentment. We’re all there at the end of correction, in the Garden of Eden. So, I need to edge the friends closer each moment to feeling that, and I’ll come closer to it myself, in the process.
If one is holding the intention to elevate the friends to such a feeling of connection, then what we say to each other will be generally right and the Light will cover for our mistakes. But if we forget about this intention, we’re on a very slow path of mistakes and corrections, until we nevertheless come to this work with accompanying intentions.
Except for the fact that you are a woman and feel the work as such, it’s the same work for men and women, and a man too can be found in that which is called “women’s work”, without intentions; and a woman in what’s called “men’s work,” meaning with an intention.
That’s such a broad question that I’m certain you need to study more, to get the breadth of the wisdom, it’s essential topics, at least in a broad way of understanding them. And before that, you can’t begin to implement it. This study works on you and makes billions of micro changes within your desire, and as it changes, your reality starts changing. And then you’ll see what to do.
Yes, that guide is the first 20 articles of Rabash, which we go through the essence of, in the Young Group. But basically, the currency between you is greatness of the spiritual goal. Every word should evoke this.
You’re right that it’s complex because the correction of these relationships leaves one with nothing else to be done in one’s lifetime here.
Hi Todd,
I don’t know the specific circumstances but generally we don’t expel members of a ten unless they are repeatedly breaking the rules of our society, and after mediation it’s clear that they are intent on disturbing the spiritual work of our other friends, and unwilling to consider that their approach is at odds with the teachings of Rabash, Rav, Baal HaSulam.
How to look at it? I would first, if it was me, consider how I may have been mistaken or should change, while also checking with the Arvut Team to mediate. They are very experienced friends with expertise in this, and you can trust their guidance.
Rav has been asked this exact question many times, regarding the ten being split, and the answer is always to go as a representative, even if you’re the only one. The whole ten will benefit, in fact they, virtually, will be more tied to it, through you.
About your personal accounts I can’t say.
We come to fear through the work in the heart, and upon this work the Light works. So it’s upon us to cultivate this fear, and this is starting to build the Screen. It’s enough that its basis is the forms I know from Rabash are closer to bestowal, that I will look out for the friends spiritually, see their greatness and my loveliness, always add to what we had the day before, etc.
To the other question, I understand but we have to move forward always as this is the Creator’s will. So do it for Him and that’s even better.
