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Hi Helen,
Sorry, I just missed your question.
No, your desire to receive is only revealed. A regular person has an ego that is not revealed so it’s like cancer that hasn’t been diagnosed. It’s causing you harm big-time, but for now you think everything’s great.
This is called “revelation of evil,” meaning the revelation of all that is in me, and is actually destroying all the good in the world. It happens in a way that a person realizes that it was always there but I was unaware of it, like one who has never looked in a mirror suddenly sees their face is dirty.
You’re right in everything. However, according to spirituality, while the friends are with us, they are all equal, because the Creator brings them here right now, and they are irreplaceably special, anc you’re privileged to be in their company, no matter their level of whatever looks to you like their dedication. They are previous. And if they make their free choice to leave, then they go back to beastly life, their Point in the Heart is buried, and they’re suddenly like anyone else.
But while they’re awakened, with us, overcoming their Will to Receive, you have to love their holy spark, respect each one as equal, and do all you can to help them make their free choice right free choice each time.
We still wait for them to be awakened and welcome them back. In the meantime, we continue the work.
If a friend leaves, it’s natural that they would leave behind some accusations. Otherwise why leave? Every friend who does spiritual work has accusations against their friends. It’s not that these accusations have a shred of validity. I always need to judge myself, and never the friends; lower myself and raise the friends above me; give love of friends to the ten, and not wait for love to be shown to me, such that friends will behave in manners that suit my opinion of what love of friends looks like. In short, there’s no room for me to allow the image of the shattered reality to speak within me – let alone for it to escape past my lips and echo within the ten!
If there’s a specific problem that we think falls outside the boundaries of the regular tricks that each one’s ego plays to give us something to overcome, you can reach out to the Arvut Team. But we have to accept that, as in a body where cells are born and die all the time, there can be friends that come and go on the periphery of the ten. Our role is to love them and support them while they are with us, and the rest is up to the Creator.
Yes, it’s a process and it takes time for any person to hear deeply and accept the fences of discourse within the ten – while still maximally participating. As I said previously, the only currency between friends is greatness of the spiritual goal, conveyed through all kinds of tactics: you have to give them such importance of the goal that reality changes for them. One’s reality is a lie to begin with; we need to sell each other the truth, that we’re connected, filled with the Light of the Creator, receiving nothing for ourselves, only receiving all the goodness in our connection, thus giving them such importance Creator great contentment. We’re all there at the end of correction, in the Garden of Eden. So, I need to edge the friends closer each moment to feeling that, and I’ll come closer to it myself, in the process.
If one is holding the intention to elevate the friends to such a feeling of connection, then what we say to each other will be generally right and the Light will cover for our mistakes. But if we forget about this intention, we’re on a very slow path of mistakes and corrections, until we nevertheless come to this work with accompanying intentions.
Except for the fact that you are a woman and feel the work as such, it’s the same work for men and women, and a man too can be found in that which is called “women’s work”, without intentions; and a woman in what’s called “men’s work,” meaning with an intention.
That’s such a broad question that I’m certain you need to study more, to get the breadth of the wisdom, it’s essential topics, at least in a broad way of understanding them. And before that, you can’t begin to implement it. This study works on you and makes billions of micro changes within your desire, and as it changes, your reality starts changing. And then you’ll see what to do.
Yes, that guide is the first 20 articles of Rabash, which we go through the essence of, in the Young Group. But basically, the currency between you is greatness of the spiritual goal. Every word should evoke this.
You’re right that it’s complex because the correction of these relationships leaves one with nothing else to be done in one’s lifetime here.
