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Hi Gianni,
How can I become grateful for having a deficiency?
And what’s the purpose of the deficiency then if not to overcome?
Can it be that dome of us  are only there to have a deficiency, so that the light can fill the dark space and even in deep prayer there won’t ever be an answer, because the purpose of such lives in the overall system is to be deficient so the light can expand into that empty vessel, that darkness?
Dear Gianni, how do the shattered and the connected state overlap- especially in preparation for the congress?  because on the one handside it seems like basically everything is shattered… and it’s just no overcoming- and then on the other handside, just through being in the morning lesson that field of connection seems so tangible (even through a break because of another alarm… ). How do we navigate in this , feeling there is nothing we can do,feeling it is all on the creator, but willing to do whatever we can… only it seems it’s really the prayer we have, nothing else?
Hi Gianni, your explanations have been helpful, thank you:) Just because I really don’t understand it- What is the difference between A KabU Ten and a BB ten? I understand that as long as you are at KabU , it’s KabU who decides what will be your ten, who eill be in your zen, and they may change tens, also those that have graduated, but if you are a BB ten, it’s different? Is that correct?
Now, we have just finished YG, and the question is what is next. I feel it’s important to know the options. Because I feel there is an essential difference between a KabU ten that needs to be a flexible group construct and a BB ten that is „permanent“.
But before I get that wrong, and come to a conpletely wrong conclusion, which might chunk me out of KabU, I thought to better ask.
Hi Gianni, this is really helpful… but there is another aspect… what happens if you force a union of tens  against  what feels true to be the root of either ten? You may call it overcoming, but the people affected may feel their ten is deliberately shattered. How to relate to such actions?
Hi Gianni, I am so sorry, but I have another question. What happens if you force connection? If you urge people to connect and adapt to a frame , although their clearly say no? I feel this is coercion. And I learned coercion doesn‘t work. However, I feel there is a very thin line between overcoming and coercion. And I feel if you put enough pressure on people, they may say yes to things that they strongly disagree with. So, I am not sure how to go about issues like that. I have an idea that overcoming is beneficial. But if it’s coercion I feel it can be very harmful. I might be wrong though. So, I really need to ask this.
