Preparation Prompt: What does transitioning from a self-centered perception of reality to one grounded in altruism entail?

[Julian Edwards- KabU Instructor]

Preparation Prompt: What does transitioning from a self-centered perception of reality to one grounded in altruism entail?

[Enayat]

For me, this transition isn’t easy; sometimes I still put myself first. But every moment I think of others, I feel closer to the true meaning.

[Clarence]

Shifting from a self-centered view to an altruistic mindset requires profound self-awareness and empathy. It’s about recognizing that true fulfillment comes from contributing beyond oneself, fostering connection and kindness. I remember struggling to move past my own desires during a community project, where the spirit of giving flourished, much like the vibrant energy you find at Monkey Mart. Such experiences highlight growth and shared humanity.

[Bonnie]

It entails me first having an intention to receive correctly in order to give to others and not for the purpose of myself. This process is established by first allowing the ego to expand in order to correct it in order to give to the Creator.

[Clarence]

This concept highlights the delicate balance between self-awareness and altruism. Understanding that one must grow personally before genuinely helping others resonates deeply. I once struggled with wanting to assist friends but realized I needed to address my own mindset first. Just like I found clarity after browsing through Monkey Mart’s thought-provoking articles, this idea encourages self-improvement to benefit others.

[Marcelo]

The transition is all in the “Intention”. There are many things we can’t change, but, what we can change is the intention in our “Will to receive”. If we pray to The Creator and put our faith in what He wants for us, with the addition of efforts on our side, we gradually start improving in us the balance between receiving for our own sake and receiving only to bestow.

[Bonnie]

It entails being proactive in denouncing every egoistic thought with an intention of keeping the mitzvot of loving your friend as yourself by putting their needs above yours.

[Carina]

When I tune into all my senses—especially that deeper, “sixth sense” of connection—I start to notice the different sides of myself, almost like the ten sefirot and partzufim coming alive in me. Each quality, from wisdom to kindness to discipline, plays a role as I catch my ego’s usual pull to think just of myself. Instead of shutting it down, I use my ego as a signal—reminding me to flip my intention from taking for myself to truly giving to others. Every moment becomes a chance to choose: do I act out of habit and self-interest, or do I stretch just a bit more toward real empathy and authentic giving? Step by step, this mix of senses, spiritual qualities, and my very human ego becomes the path to connection—transforming self-focus into genuine care for others.

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