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    Tal Mandelbaum
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    Share something from the lesson that you found insightful, or share your impressions from the exercise.

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    • #60182
      Francisco
      Participant

      Hi there,

      I am looking forward to understand the Kabbalah’s view to love relationships. Regarding the current lesson, I have noticed this ‘change the other’ behavior before in me and I have started to control it! However sometimes it is an almost subconscious urge to “request her to change” – and I rationally hate it. Hope I can learn to improve this behavior of mine!

      • #188867
        Tal Mandelbaum
        Moderator

        Hi there!

        Indeed it takes time and practice to rewire our brains and teach ourselves this opposite approach! It’s opposite to the ego, and everything we have become used to. So, we just need to keep practicing, and remember that the best way to change ourselves is with a supportive environment to remind and motivate us!

    • #59238
      Janina Paasonen
      Participant

      In too msny occasions I seem to put my ego between me snd my hubby.  It’s very eyes opening to study the situation carefully.

    • #56112
      ORLANDO
      Participant

      Hi Friends

      Yes I know it’s weird but in a good way. I have noticed that sometimes when my wife argues with me about something, she argues about things she is seeing in me but are thing she fears about herself and vice versa.

      • #188868
        Tal Mandelbaum
        Moderator

        This is true, we are mirrors for each other!

    • #54565
      Rune T. A.
      Participant

      This lesson reminds me of something someone once told me, and that was to always let people stay where they are in regards to their level of personal development. And it makes totally sense to me.

      • #188869
        Tal Mandelbaum
        Moderator

        We do need to love our partners as they are…and lead by example. It is the best way!

    • #53437
      KatieBug
      Participant

      Wow. I learned ALOT about myself from these lessons so far. Thank you.

    • #52974
      Anthony
      Participant

      In my experience , blame in a relationship is never the answer. The things that we want to change in our relationships are the things that we need to change in ourselves . Our partners are a refection and a perfect mirror into the window of our souls.

      • #54387
        Tal Mandelbaum
        Moderator

        Yes..! I agree. Even if our partners don’t do things 100% right all the time- it’s our job to see that with compassion, knowing that we are all here doing the best we can, and have had different life experiences that built us up the way we are.

        It’s interesting to note how sometimes everything will go smoothly, and then at some point, our partner will trigger us. This too is no coincidence, but a nudge from “the system” for us to make some forward movement in our awareness/growth.

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