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I might be late in understanding how to transition from egoism to bestowal. In watching and listening more carefully to the videos and after watching them three times, I believe I understand better regarding how to fix the egoistic desires. I have learned that one begins with fixing one’s relationships/attitudes towards others. I vaguely was able to understand the Point in the Heart. I understood the concept. However, I was not able to answer the question to myself on how to reach that Point. I understood that one had to desire,feel the way to the Point in the Heart, but how? Again, reaching the Point in the Heart has to do with fixing one’s relationships towards other and follow the values base on connection, unity, and bestowal. Mainly, what clicked for me was the fixing part that I believe I now understand.
On a point I did not get to comment regarding the video I watched from Dr. Laitman on what reaction one should have with evil people, something like that. I watched it twice and did not agree that it was so easy to forgive people who have been/are evil towards one. Dr. Laitman’s response was to have compassion on them even if that person/s were insulting one in our face. I watched it a third time. Then I watched a movie about the Holocaust and a boy asked a Holocaust survivor if he hated the Nazis. The man responded that he did not. He felt pity for them. That allowed me to review the cruelty that I am receiving from a certain person. I have only hated two people in my life. However, that hate subsided quickly when I realized I was wasting my time in doing so. Hence, I watched Dr. Laitman’s video again and realized that one needs to have compassion/pity if so towards anyone who is blatantly insulting one constantly. That gave me a lot of peace and now I understand and agree with Dr. Laitman. If we are to leave egoism and “hate,” one needs to transfer those emotions to true altruism.
Jon, I agree with your statement: “…consciously replace the ‘why’ of our actions for something greater. Our actions still depend on our egoism, but originate from an altruistic force.” Last year I helped a dear friend who when she found out that I had a Ph.D. in Psychology and she had a master’s, she was honest in telling me she felt jealous. Hence, she embarked on pursuing a doctorate. She is from my country. Therefore, we would communicate through WhatsApp and occasionally on the phone. I was more than happy to help her all the way through including her doctoral thesis. I was very happy to help her. After three years, she accomplished her goal. We always stayed in touch even before she decided to go for the doctorate. She gave her dissertation before several professors and I also guided her on how to present it. I was truthfully happy. I sent her so many congratulatory messages and then she stopped communicating with me. It has now been a year that I have not heard from her. In the last two months, I have had thoughts of how ungrateful she has been by not even give me a friend’s call. After reading your response, I have to admit that at the time I was helping altruistically. However, in questioning the fact that she has no longer communicated and posts how she alone accomplished this degree on her own; I thought to myself “how ungrateful.” Therefore, my action did originate from egoism, “but originated from an altruistic force.”
I have mentioned before that I am a psychologist; hence, a scientist. I agree with everything that I learned from the Kabbalistic videos. This is about the fact that we are all connected. From a study done in Israel in 2000, it was proven that the DNA worldwide was connected. Therefore, the fact that we look different depended in which area one was born. This is a fact in terms of our corporeal existence. Regarding the spirituality of us, humans, makes a lot of sense to me. I agree that the world is reaching a point of self destruction between nations. I definitely agree that striving to make spiritual connections through the method of Kabbalah will/can help us correct, connect, and reunite in a spiritual world in which we can all align and reunite our souls with love and bestowal. Hence, be aligned with the Creator; very doable in terms of beginning with groups that will extend to other groups.
In my profession as a psychologist, theories are set out to be proved, in terms of human behavior and a set of descriptions that align with the client’s behavior, a diagnosis is reached. I discovered Kabbalah about 15 years ago. However, only by books that I bought. I had an idea of what Kabbalah was about. However, nothing that I could actually practice in my life. Having stated this and having finished the first semester, I am realizing that Kabbalah is so much more than just reading books. One needs a Kabbalist as a teacher to break down every word I ever read. Finishing the first semester, has been an eye-opening experience. One that I wish to continue and learn to apply the method of Kabbalah. I am very interested in learning the wisdom of Kabbalah in terms of application and mostly interested in the writings from ancient Babylonian times.
I had books of Kabbalah that I bought and read. However, now with instructions and the instructors guiding and teaching us the true meaning of Kabbalah, I understand the great significance and meaning of Kabbalah. Another interesting fact is that since I began the courses, I would watch some movies, regular in terms of comedies or serious themes, and words were spoken from the actors’ script that without learning what I have learned, they would just have been words. However, the words that I would hear, I understood that they were connected to concepts of Kabbalah. What I am trying to express is that whether it is a movie or something I read unrelated to Kabbalah, I find words that are similar to words in their meaning to Kabbalah. Serendipity? I do not think so. I think it is more about my brain making purposeful connections between Kabbalah and the world. For this following course, I will be very interested in learning more about how to practice the teachings of Kabbalah and mostly about true prayer.
