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Yes, you have to work together with those projections of your own qualities, and treat them as if they are parts of you. So, according to the rule, “love your friend as yourself.” On condition that you evidently are trying to do this, the Reforming Light will work on you, and gradually bring you to the true perception.
That’s already enough that you connect for the purpose of the whole. If you organize this intention, the Will to Receive already takes away one’s forces to work, and then you have to pray.
There isn’t a big difference between men and women. The work is the same. Both are trying to come from one’s root of reception to the quality of bestowal, by overcoming all kinds of alternative desires and intentions.
The main thing is that every moment we expect the Light to work now, provide an invitation to it to do the Creator’s Will upon us.
I don’t know about the exact situation, but I understand all these feelings when getting assigned a new ten; I’ve been through it a few times. And it’s just that all of you to some extent still disagree with the decision, and you don’t want to let go of your opinion completely. So, it’s like I’m engaged to be married now, but I have this one ex-girlfriend that I’m still thinking about. And each day, I’m checking evaluating my fiancé against the possibility of going back to my ex. So, it turns out that I’m not quite invested because I still have one foot out the door. It’s simply that where the Will to Receive has invested, it remains invested, as it wants its payment for its investment. It’s the same mechanism when you’ve invested in a husband, and for another woman to now acquire him and with him the work you’ve invested in him, you feel a degree of bitterness about that. What is the solution? I invest in my new ten, and to the extent that my investment in them outweighs my investment in my previous ten, I will only focus on my new ten. That’s how it will work, because that’s how we’re built.
There is always a negative side, a way that the ego knows how to steal your advancement. Annulment is always against my Will to Receive. It’s very active and non-relaxing. The fetus has great work to be annulled all the time and not be aborted. Sometimes it could be to follow others in how they connect, sometimes I need to push them so they’ll connect. Neither is a state of rest. If I’m nullifying my Will to Receive, I always feel it in disagreement with the act.
It depends how much I obligate myself internally to be present, tied to them. I have to be actively, proactively annulling myself so that my whole thought and existence is with them and in them, letting what is outside me decide everything for what is inside me. Then, through them, we hear the guidance of the Creator.
