[Gianni – KabU Instructor]

We’re already AFTER these phases. I only reveal what I always was, removing the concealment and dream I was living in. And then, something can be done about it. Till then, I’m like a one with a terminal illness who’s convinced he’s in peak health.

[Gianni – KabU Instructor]

When I feel the pain of a descent, how do I know when it is completed and when it’s been “enough” of this state to receive a complete need?

When you cry from within your heart to the Creator to help. 

How do I even know it is a true descent and what if it appears to pull me away from the creator , but it is not so much a spiritual thing?

Whatever pulls me away from the Creator is pulling me away from the Creator. 

Adding to this, how and when do I responsibly share such a state with the friends without abusing their care and help and without running away from the lecture I have to learn?

There’s a place for sharing a deficiency related to the goal, but the overall ratio of deficiency to enlivenment should be 0.5 to 24.

I understand there is no point dwelling in any state, but what should be my attitude when I recognize it? Is this an individual thing… because some people can bear more discomfort or pain than others before they cry out and some people need longer to share their pain with friends than others and some open up about weaknesses more easily than others?

I haven’t heard anything like that from Kabbalists about each one sharing their pain. Can you show me that in a Rabash article? Each can share within the overall allotment for the ten of 0.5 to 24 deficiency to enlivenment. And the deficiency is a story of overcoming the deficiency.  

I feel the group of friends is such a treasure, and the creator IS revealing in them… so how to balance this properly in order not to confuse the friends or the work, not to contaminate this environment unnecessarily with any struggles and at the same time allow real connection which asks openness?

Well, we can’t open up everything because there’s nothing good inside. Except the Point in the Heart, which is just a point of aspiration toward spirituality. So, all I really have to share with the friends is this aspiration. 

[Gianni – KabU Instructor]

You may have Juan and Anne Pierre there.

[Gianni – KabU Instructor]

Hi Logynn,

We’ve done 2 around this topic:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LiJ9OsfFKKQ&t=702s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qyEQD6_T4U0&t=1s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_auoRE49WGw

Also, if you go here and search for David, there’s a lot. https://laitman.com/blog/

 

[Gianni – KabU Instructor]

Hi Zorica,

I don’t know of any instructors going to Hungary. The English Department will be in Pennsylvania, U.S.

[Gianni – KabU Instructor]

Hi Marlaina,

Until you’re in a ten and can access the Arvut platform, you should be able to watch here at 8pm EST: http://kab.tv/eng#/playlist

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