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Hi Gianni… there is another question… if I really wish to practice love of friends… how do I do that? How do I really see the friends as the most important, how can I truly aim at raising their spirit? I feel there are so many actions we do… posting stuff, going to classes or lessons… but it feels like going with blindfolders and hoping that maybe one of those actions counts. How instead of blindly following the herd can I be a true friend? I feel it‘s a „comfortable“ way to just go to lessons… and it’s a good start… but I could be going there without my heart being there for my friends…just switching my screen on  doesn’t mean at all that I would care or connect… I could be formerly there , and still not care. I don’t want that. So… HOW do I connect internally beyond keeping a formal frame of being present in a meeting, lesson etc?

[Verena]

Hi Gianni… this might be an awkward question, but I really wonder…. what makes a ten a ten??? I mean… in truth we are all connected, all and everyone. So … does that mean a ten could be with anyone? Is it interchangeable? If yes, then why don’t we keep changing… like in a congress… whoever sits next to us is our ten? Or then on the other hand… why are we being changed? And if any of this happens… how do I know, what is given to me, this is my ten? People are dropping out of tens… I heard people speak a lot about it in the congress. How do I know I am where I am supposed to be? And when is it time to move on? I don’t aim at that… but I understand there is a tendency to form physical tens now.

You know, I am not asking for any organisational reason… I just really try to understand what constitutes a true ten, who may decide about when a ten is a ten, and how I should relate to it- in the awareness that all of humanity is connected anyways, and at the same time most of us cannot relate to it.

[Verena]

Dear Gianni, thanks for the answer on annulment ( Here is a follow up question (I put it in the wrong thread, sorry, so here it is again): Your answer was  bringing me a bit closer… yet I feel it’s still confusing so I hope it’s ok if I add another bit to this question: It seems like outwardly annulment can easily be done in the ten… „let the friends choose first, let the friends decide, I follow the group, let them speak , not me“… and I feel this could be annulment , but it could also be laziness or withdrawl … it could even be refusing to serve the friends, because maybe they would need my help or input. Or maybe they would wish to bestow on me, and by not showing myself, I am not allowing them to do that. So… what should lead my actions? How do I truly annul and not withdraw myself? How do I do these actions for my friends, and not for myself? What needs to be my intention in any of these actions, so it can be truly beneficial for my friends?

Thank you:)

[Verena]

Dear Gianni, thanks for the answer. It’s bringing me a bit closer… yet I feel it’s still confusing so I hope it’s ok if I add another bit to this question: It seems like outwardly annulment can easily be done in the ten… „let the friends choose first, let the friends decide, I follow the group, let them speak , not me“… and I feel this could be annulment , but it could also be laziness or withdrawl … it could even be refusing to serve the friends, because maybe they would need my help or input. Or maybe they would wish to bestow on me, and by not showing myself, I am not allowing them to do that. So… what should lead my actions? How do I truly annul and not withdraw myself? How do I do these actions for my friends, and not for myself? What needs to be my intention in any of these actions, so it can be truly beneficial for my friends?

Thank you:)

[Verena]

Hi Gianni, in the work in the ten, how do I balance annulment and bestowal and Connection so it serves the purpose of the ten, ?

[Verena]

When you have to choose between annulling before the friends , or a higher aspect of the system, how do you choose wisely?

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