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Just to support and not be against. They don’t need to study or be actively interested in it.
Look, I married someone who studied with us, and moreover I actively checked with others to ensure she was solidly a part of it. But that’s not required and may not even be possible for everyone. The standard is what I said: supportive and not against because this is my soul and you can take anything else from me but not this.
They need to eventually learn that I’m on this path, for life, and a certain amount of my free time will be dedicated to it. And they need to fully support that.
No, no – do whatever you want with romantic love. That’s nothing more than what birds do when the male dances in front of the female. It’s on the animate level. Kabbalah deals with higher things.
That said, Kabbalists always tried to be married so that the animate body of ours is taken care of and doesn’t bother us about that.
You need to simply be good to those around you – approximately according to what’s generally expected of generally “nice” people. Not exceedingly nice though.
On top of that, I need to study the Wisdom of Kabbalah in all of my truly free time (which everyone has plenty of, when we look honestly).
These measures ensure that one has a balanced approach to corporeality, first of all, because beginners often waste their energy and thus tire themselves trying to “do something” spiritual in relation to corporeality. Corporeal life is one surface, on which the most spiritual thing is to not do anything, by which I mean not to do anything “spiritual” because all you’ll think to do will be wrong, and about this it is written “sit and do nothing – that’s better.” But your barometer is what I said above, to be good, normal. A Kabbalist beginner usually has some problem or other with this advice, and doesn’t realize how much of a problem keeping it, is. In fact, just with this, one stumbles for many years usually.
The rest, the Light will take care of. It advances you, when you study. Additionally, the precise spiritual work will become clearer. No, it’s not normal for Kabbalists to be depressed. On the contrary, to be in great elation. But yes, it’s sometimes that way at the start.
My intention is all for self-love, so does everybody around me. correct? if no judging is required, shouldn’t that include not judging myself? accept that’s my essence and try to use it the right way?
Yes
I guess I am a bit lost here. we are all created as this desire to receive, me, you, him, her… how come they are found in perfection in the world of Eyn Sof? if they are, am I not?
You are, but that doesn’t matter. What you feel and have clearly in your senses is what matters.
Also not sure that I understand ” except for the projections from my inner qualities that stand between Eyn Sof and my degree.”
Between the perfection that is the perfect, connected Vessel, which includes all of humanity, and what you feel now, is a projection of all the possible intentions of yours that are something other than for the sake of the Creator. With them, you’re in a world. That’s why you can’t judge anyone and can’t correct anyone except yourself. All is futile except for this.
