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Hi Gianni, I am so sorry, but I have another question. What happens if you force connection? If you urge people to connect and adapt to a frame , although their clearly say no? I feel this is coercion. And I learned coercion doesn‘t work. However, I feel there is a very thin line between overcoming and coercion. And I feel if you put enough pressure on people, they may say yes to things that they strongly disagree with. So, I am not sure how to go about issues like that. I have an idea that overcoming is beneficial. But if it’s coercion I feel it can be very harmful. I might be wrong though. So, I really need to ask this.
An there is a last question, and I really hope you can help there… what does it mean to overcome “above reason”. If we work above the shattering, but we don´t clean up the mess we have created, I don´t see how this is not going to make us stumble and fall over hte chattered pieces we have jsut created. Same if we cover things with love. Thinking, a friend may do whatever they wish, we rise above that level, and leave the mess as it is… how will there be any growth an learning? I feel it´s like a recipe for falling over again and again. So, how do I have to relate to it? do I blindly cover? Do I just forget and move on? Because thinking… a friend is hurtful or harming the ten or whatsoever, and it´s just a matter of time this will happen in any group…. how can this be growth rather than ignoring the shattering, and fall right into the next void? I don´t midn falling, if there is learning. But I really don´t wish to redundantly keep falling into the same traps as a ten. That would only recreate the same level over and over again. (Then I could just as well stay in corporeality, where there is plenty of that).
Gianni, I have got another question. What does it mean to say the friends are our mirrors? I mean… it is very easily said; and basically it is a good excuse for friends in a turmoilt to not take responsibility, but blame it on the friend or the creator. I don´t really understand the meaning of this law and how to relate to it. Because if it´s corrupted and just used as an excuse, it can be so harmful.
Gianni, another question that may seem foolish, but… what is the essence of connection in the ten? What should we focus on? How do we REALLY establish connection?
